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Merwin23

23 / M / Straight / Available

Fairport, New York

His Details

Last Online
Today – 6:26pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Skinny
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Pisces
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Student
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
The two main aspects of my personality are aesthetic freedom (a will to create myself and freely use my subjectivity) and embracing Others. I'm individualistic, emphatic, and creative basically. My main hobby is learning more about literature. I have a dog, he's super cute. I'm an introvert. I'm really interested in learning more about all types of art. I have a tendency to analyze everything. Also I love Louis C. K and Cormac McCarthy.
What I’m doing with my life
Healing. Looking for a job.
I’m really good at
Reading, Writing, Listening, Talking, Referencing weighty philosophical concepts to small facets of existence,
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: American Pastoral, Blood Meridian, The Brothers Karamazov, The Metamorphosis, As I Lay Dying, The Sun Also Rises, One Hundred Years of Solitude, Lolita, The Bluest Eye, Hamlet (no words).

Films: 8 1/2, La Dolce Vita, Seventh Seal, Winter Light, Persona, Once Upon A Time in the West, The Life Aquatic, Magnolia, Stalker, Au Hasard Balthasar, Jules et Jim, Tree of Life, La Regle du Jeu,

TV Shows: Mad Men, Breaking Bad, How I Met Your Mother, New Girl, Scrubs (my all time favorite).

Music: Bon Iver, Explosions in the Sky, Mogwai, Sigur Ros, The National, The Pixies, Iron & Wine Blind Pilot, Boards of Canada, Aphex Twin, The Album Leaf. I also love Arvo Part but wish I was more exposed to classical music.

Food: My favorite is Italian but I will literally eat anything. I've traveled and willing sampled initially unappealing local cuisine.
The six things I could never do without
Human Connection (This has it's ups and downs)
Literature
Music
Film
Coffee
Philosophy
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Art, Death, and Love.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends or in reading a book. I can be pretty boring so most of the time I stay in and read a book.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm really passionate about art. I am a literature and film nerd. Shakespeare slays me above all else.

Also I'm unable to understand why people don't realize that a certain amount of Presence is required in order to engage with another's ego, otherwise its seems to indicate an unwillingness to embrace others which is insulting and far different from shyness.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–26
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You have a penchant for intellectual, artsy boys.

You don't know what you want (who truly does?)

You don't make religion your life.