Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Before any of you read too far into my profile, I'm in a
non-hierarchical polyamorous relationship with one partner. So that
you know about my lifestyle and I'm sure some of you may have some
questions. There are many type of polyamorous relationships. It's
hard to nail it down on how/what/why. I'm going to make it more
First thing I would like to mention about one and only big rule.
Whenever someone start dating someone, they are required to get
STD/HIV test for everyone's safety. That means casual sex is out of
Polyamorous does not mean we are out to fuck everyone or steal
everyone's boy/girl friends or whatever stereotypes people would
think of. It's not cuckholding, hunting for unicorn, swinging,
dom/sub, or hot wife/husband kind of things. It's mostly about love
and emotional connection just like any monogamous
Now some of you may ask how does monogamous and polyamorous can be
similar. To answer that question, I'm in a non-hierarchical
polyamorous relationship which means everyone is equal. There is no
primary or secondary aka “oh my primary partner comes first, blah
blah blah” which is 100% bullshit. Think of this as having multiple
best friends. It's actually not that complicated.
I'm looking for someone to date causally first to see if we clicks
and see where we can go from there. If the whole polyamorous thing
doesn't scare you, message me!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've been trying to go back to school for years but I figured that
school isn't for me. I always prefer to work with my hands so I've
getting myself into blue collar type of jobs. I'm a painter
Other than that, I also love to do stuff like snowboarding,
gardening, kayaking, and minimalist camping. Right now I'm trying
to save up for downhill mountain bike (why is it so expensive....)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading people/reading body language.
Being a naturally carefree and open-minded person.
In the past, I was so good at cramming homework/projects but I
prefer a stress-free lifestyle at this point.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair, maybe? It's long straight black/dark brown hair.
My partner says it's my "boyish good looks" (her words, not mine
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Shows: Orange is New Black, Dexter, Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad,
Spartacus, Scrubs, Buffy, Six Feet Under, Rome, The Wire, and
Books: I rarely read books that aren't for school these days. My
favorite books are Of Mice And Men, 1984, New Brave World, and
Music: I'm deaf, so I will "listen" to music while driving, but
only for the vibration. It's pretty awkward when I pull in
listening to anything such as sport talk or...I don't know country
music on full blast.
Food: I'm a take-out addict. Chinese, Japanese, Mediterranean,
Mexican, Thai, and Indian are my favorites. Now I am becoming more
frugal and take-outs is my curse. Gah! Although I can cook decently
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm a big day-dreamer, and can spend a while in a naturally
meditative state, almost not thinking! Don't make fun of me if you
find me sitting around staring at the wall.
I do think about my future career, and the future in general.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
My free time is mostly on week days. I go out my kayak, spend time
with friends/my significant other, try new restaurants with my SO
(we like to try new types of good and also practice signing to each
other in restaurants - she is hearing) Netflixing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm insecure about my writing/grammar. I try my best but much of
grammar is learned from hearing, I miss out on words. If my writing
seems choppy that's why.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Knowing ASL is a huge plus (I'm deaf - I have a cochlear implant
and speak, but it is nice to sign too), you're looking for new
friends, if you're poly or interested in polyamory. Open-mindedness
is a must.
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