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Mesha100

45 / F / Straight / Single

Atlanta, Georgia

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 11:20am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Virgo
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I'm a loving, fun loving, intelligent, passionate, pretty gal who, although has been in love before, has not been willing to stay with or marry the wrong person just for the sake of not being alone.
I'm earthy & artsy. A true nature lover.
I do yoga & love the water/beach (swimming, boogie-boarding, surfing, etc, etc, etc.).
I truly thought that meeting that special someone was going to happen much more organically than online but alas here we are.
What I’m doing with my life
Working & traveling. Sometimes traveling for work. ;)
Taking a break from how I've done things for a long time to explore new facets of life.
I’m really good at
Hmmm...a lot of things.
I'm thoughtful.
Handy.
Listening.
Being loving or giving a good kick in the pants whenever the situation calls for it.
Seeing the light in heavy situations.
Being able to play & be serious at the right times.
Spending less than I earn; saving for goals & otherwise...
Being honest but kind.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile.
My height.
My sunny disposition. (When I'm in a good mood it can be infectious.)
My passion.
That I actually listen to what other people say.
That I have nice teeth. (haha)
And I am adventurous (have traveled a lot, etc.).
Also I seem a lot younger than I am (b/c of my youthful spirit).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This section is going to take a while...

HUGE music lover. I like everything except horrid pop country & spastic panic-attack-creating jazz.
I LOVE noisy alternative, folk, fun non-sensical pop, hip-hop, emo, electronic, acoustic, a cappella, booty-shaking, soul-stirring, elevating, tear-jerking, flower-stomping music. Por ejemplo...
Noisy/Alternative (Jack White, Waters, Marcy Playground, Bombay Bicycle Club, Morningwood, Dinosaur Jr.)
Folk (Lucinda Williams, Collin Hay, Robert Pattinson, Ray LaMontagne, Rodriguez, Sufjan Stevens, Kimya Dawson)
Reggae - Bob - Who else (haha)? Ziggy, Michael Franti
Sing-a-long: KT Tundstall, Lady Gaga, Indigo Girls
Ridiculous: Gangnam Style!, Moves Like Jagger, Thrift Shop
Booty-shakin: Beck (Midnight Vultures)
Electronic: Wolfsheim

...Operation Ivy, Muse, Jason Mraz, Karmin, Flo + Machine, Edward Sharpe & Mag Zeros, The Black Keys, Donovan Frankenreiter, One Eskimo, Eddie Vedder...
...this could go on forever....

Movies: I'd say my taste is pretty diverse: Indie, Artsy, alternative, spiritual, intelligent. Favs I've seen recently:
Searching For Sugar Man
The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel
My Reincarnation
Cabin In The Woods
The Intouchables

Shows: Big Bang Theory, Workaholics, My Name Is Earl, My Cat From Hell, True Blood, Walking Dead, Game of Thrones, America's Funniest Videos

Books: I typically have always read spiritual or philosophical-types of books. But, being told I needed to lighten up I've started reading novels such as:
Ellen Foster
Twilight Series
Sookie Stackhouse Novels
Mercy Thompson Series
Paulo Coelho (The Alchemist, The Pilgrimage, Witch of Portobello, (& currently) 11 Minutes)
Eat, Pray, Love
The Hunger Games
Suze Orman (bunches)
Rich Dad, Poor Dad
What Men Want (haha, yes, really)
The Road Less Traveled
Conversations with God (I, II, etc)
Way of the Spiritual Warrior
A New Earth (Eckhart Tolle)
The Artist's Way
Many Lives Many Masters
A Walk in the Woods
In A Sunburned Country
Lonely Planet (bunches) ;)
Anne Rice
Dead Babies (Martin Amis)

Fav Food: Good quality, fresh, healthy, delicious food created with care & an artistic flare. I love fresh juice (veggie & fruit).
...and yet every once in a while you have to throw down at the awful waffle -can't be too pure. ;)
The six things I could never do without
Music
Love
Touch
Hanging w/ friends & loved ones
Down time
Delicious, healthy, food & juice
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life & all its many facets....constantly thinking, philosophizing, analyzing...
...What it's all about...why things are the way they are...why my life is the way it is...what I can do to improve it...
...Also about my friend's & family's lives as well.
I’ve been accused of being waaaayyyy too esoteric.
On a typical Friday night I am
It varys..., sometimes working.
Sometimes chilling at the crib after a long week.
Sometimes looking for something to do.
Most of the time hanging with friends, going out to dinner, etc.
And of course...wishing I was on a hot date with someone I was looking forward to seeing. :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm very discerning about disclosing private things. ;)
However, if you are in my inner circle you'd think I have no limits to my openness.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 37–49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
...You feel compelled to do so.
...If you are looking for someone to share your life with who you actually want to enjoy spending time with.
-Not because you're looking for a companion -like a dog -to take along with you on your excursions so you won't have to be alone.
-Not because you want an arm ornament.
-Not because you want to have the title (or goal fulfilled) of "married".

New Additions:
I've done a lot of traveling in my life thus far but there are still quite a few places I still want to visit. I would really love to find someone that is a good traveling companion that has the time & the means to do so with me.

Being financially responsible is important to me. I don't have any debt & prefer that you don't either. And that you typically spend less than you earn -are a natural born saver but not miserly so. That there is conscious, true-heart desire reward in the way that you manage your money as well.