My life crosses many cultural boundries, and that's fine with me. In my work life I'm a dedicated professional, with good business acumen and an ability to herd cats to solve complex issues that no one else gets traction on. In my personal life, I'm a burner (the Burning Man kind, not the pot smoking kind), a football fan, a sci fi geek, an amatuer carpenter, and a lover of all things fun and exciting.
I am Poly. If you're not familiar with Polyamory you might want to Google it before going further. I am married to a wonderful Poly woman (cattninetails on here), and intend to stay that way. If Poly isn't your thing no harm no foul, but we're not going to be compatible for anything other than friends/adventure buddies. There are no secrets in my relationships, so if you're looking for something hush-hush and on the side, I'm not your guy.
I live in a house full of friends. I have a great group of friends, or chosen family, and we all live together in a large house inside the perimeter. It is fantastic.
I'm a burner, the Burning Man kind. It's a very important part of me, but by no means the only part. I spend a good bit of time helping organize the regional Burning Man events in this area, Alchemy, Euphoria, and GA Decompression.
I'm somewhat kinky, meaning that I enjoy being on either end of kinky sex, light bondage, etc, but it's not a driving force in my life. For a while years back I went to local dungeons with cattninetails and played, but I haven't gone in a while and it's more of a "I could take it or leave it" part of me.
I love to build things. I'm not overly good at it, but I enjoy trying. I'm a better house builder than sculptor if that makes sense, so it's easier for me to build a massive structure than a rocking chair.
I go to Frolicon, Play On Con, Burning Man, Euphoria, Alchemy, and similar events every year. I gave up DragonCon for Burning Man since they are at the same time, but if I don't make it back to the desert any year I'll be back at DC as well.