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28 M Kansas City, MO

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:47pm
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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This part is always the hardest, I've changed this section so many times because it never feels right. How do you put yourself in a box. I'm so much more than the words here, for that matter we all are. But I'll try to give a basic idea of who I am without giving away too much of the good stuff.

First, I'm most definitely a very passionate and caring person. If you are in my life you can bet if you ask me to do something to help you I'll do my best to facilitate. I'm also a hugger and very empathetic. I've been told I give some of the best hugs by closest friends and complete strangers! And don't be surprised if when we meet I go more for the hug than the handshake.

I am artistic, though I've taken a bit of a "hiatus" since graduating in 2011 (partially by choice, other part because sculpture making is expensive). I'm typically turning ideas or thoughts into piece ideas. Right now I'm on the path figuring out how to turn my love of art and education into a career, without doing the K-12 thing or going back to grad school (though grad school could come).

I am spiritual not religious. I was born and raised Catholic and went a long with it till about the end of high school, beginning of College. I don't identify anymore with one view, I can see the good points in all but for the most part I just try to live my life doing right by others. Does that mean I'm a saint, no I have a temper (thanks dad) and I'm human so I don't always love everyone but I try.

I'm deep at times but most of the time I'm one goofy flirty son of a gun! So in a bit more than a nutshell there is what I've come to find are the parts of me!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
On a journey of self discovery! Looking at who I am, what is the most important to me and what will make me happy.

First thing I'm trying the whole non-monogamous thing. I was a bit of serial monogamist for a bit, so now I'm trying my best not to do that. That does mean I see multiple people or go on dates hang out whatever. I'm not looking for anything serious at the moment, if that's not your cup of tea, at least I didn't save it for later.

Though lately the thought has popped into my head...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Working with my hands.
Back rubs.
Cocktail making.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height and glasses.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Fahrenheit 451, On the Road, The Celestine Prophecy, Catcher in the Rye, Slaughterhouse Five, Fight Club, Walking Dead, Brave New World, Harry Potter Series(give me a break I was 12 when it started), Godspeed: The Kurt Cobain Graphic, Siddhartha.

The Crow, Back to the Future Trilogy, Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles, Who Framed Roger Rabbit, Memento, Fight Club, Event Horizon, Resident Evil, 28 Days Later, 28 Weeks Later, The Descent, Iron Man movies, Captain America, American History X, Constantine. Many more.

Tom Waits, Morphine, Queens of the Stone Age, Soundgarden, Alice in Chains, Weezer, Ween, The White Stripes, Danzig, Radio Moscow, System of a Down, Sublime, No Doubt, Pearl Jam, Nirvana, Foo Fighters, Trampled Under Foot, Led Zeppelin, Gorillaz. Lots more.

Sons of Anarchy, Sherlock, The Walking Dead, Weeds, Dexter, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Smallville, Arrested Development, Once Upon a Time, Game of Thrones, Orange is the New Black, Doctor Who, Breaking Bad, How I Met Your Mother.

BQQ, Cajun, Sushi, medium rare-medium steak (mmmmm), all kinds of food. I have an addiction to gummy bears.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.

Bonus! Lazy mornings in bed... :-)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Relationship (past, present, future)
Human connection

And to go quite the opposite, biting a house...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working a double, serving up fancy BBQ, then maybe having a drink, but I work Saturday mornings as well.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I sometimes feel like I was born in the wrong time. I feel like I belong in either the 1940s-1950s (only thing I don't like is the lack of equality). Or the 1980s-1990s. I would have had a lot of fun being an adult in those times.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You want to go hang out, have a drink, maybe throw some darts or play some pool!

Not going to lie sometimes it's hard think of a good message to grab an interesting/pretty girls attention and I know you ladies get A LOT more messages than we guys do, and I know it's got to stand out it's hard sometimes.

Full words are great, not u r nor anything in the like. You're and your, as well as there, their and they're, there's a difference learn it. Please say more than hey or hey there. I try to put effort into my messages please do the same.