Because I am a very open person, I tend to leave people to find out what they want about me instead of me telling everyone absolutely everything. That way, I don't overload people with useless information that they will forget in minutes. Just ask whatever you want and I will happily answer, no matter what the subject ... it also means that won't get a very guarded response, you will get total honesty and a lot of it. Make sure that you remember that when talking to me!
I don't often send out messages to new people. So, if I have messaged you (and you are checking out my page as a result), it's because I found you intriguing. I also won't assume that you want anything more than to chat unless you tell me so. Friendship is the most important thing to me. In fact, I generally only date people that I have already decided will make excellent friends - a "girlfriend" is also a friend who is a female and not just a sexual partner.
I am believable, dependable, and honourable. What I don't want is for people to misinterpret the fact that I am being nice and self sacrificing to them as anything more emotionally involved. I am akin to a "Sir Galahad" type of person and will do anything I can to improve the lives of others. What I don't do is get all mushy and sentimental straight away - that won't happen until I have been with someone in person for a while. If you feel that talking to me seems a little intense, it may be because you are misinterpreting the situation.