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42 New Ferry, UK Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 10:57am
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Less than $20,000
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I lived down south for a while, but ended back up north a few yrs ago, but could do with more mates & someone more than that, so I thought I'd give this a go.

I've just finished 'Notes on a Beermat: Drinking and Why It's Necessary' by Nicholas Pashley - it's a witty & wise one about why drinking is good, written by a Canadian friend of Bill Bryson.

I love decent films (old new, foreign, or not, anything good, witty, wise, odd, touching, hearty, positive, provocative, poignant, etc) - I caught the end of Amelie the other night & remembered what a great thing that is.

What else, what else? - I'm not conventionally attractive, & that's not the "be all" for me either - my bodyshape is a bit short & a bit chunky & I find many bodyshapes very attractive. (re my body - I'm not happy being a bit unfit & really want to do something about that, but I'm not willing to do much about my lack of tallness!)

I'm not simple, but I'm not too kooky either, I'm serious at times, but funny too. I think I prob take a bit of getting to know, but I'm worth the effort!

Ah bonjour mes petits chums francais! (et bien sur vous Belgiques,Suisse, etc - Merde! - J'oublie vous Canadiens, Polynesian, Senegalese, Morrocans, etc, etc!). Mon utilisation de la langue francais est abominable (terrible!), mais je pense que est un petit peu sexy et amusant avec mon fort accent de Liverpool! ("Le Scouse")

I am here, now, and then some . . .
What I’m doing with my life
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After a while of self-employment & then as part of a partnership, I'm now back working as an employee & really enjoying not working at weekends and having a salary :~)
Got to sort out a better "useful work / well-lived life" balance though & other pressing major things!

J'aime bonne musique - un peu de "folk" Anglais/Irlandais, mais aussi un peu de classique/orchestrale (excusez-moi pour mon petit vocabulaire Francais!) un peu de pop/rock/blues/jazz etc.

I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
modesty? but otherwise music - I play drums/percussion pretty well, am learning the ukulele (stop laughing at the back) I also occasionally surprise myself & sing (either with my uke, or on my tod) at a local open mic night - so far it's been irish folk, hue&cry, sam cooke, elvis costello & a couple of others.

on a personal note, I think I'm a good friend, if we're close & it's important, I'm reliable, patient and a good listener.

What else am I good at - drinking & eating good food & drink? (esp decent beer!)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
dunno! I'm not too tall!? (honesty = best policy?)

one thing i like that no-one does notice is my eyes (esp when I get more sleep!) - I've got hazel ones (green round outside, brown round inside)

(appropros nothing much - while working out how to use a new camcorder I filmed close-ups of my eyes, I loaned the camera to a friend, who took the film, edited it & added some cool music weirdly operatic stuff by Philip Glass, with words by Paul Simon, it ended up being shown at the 'locals night' at the local arty cinema - huge close-ups of my eyes on a proper bigscreen - much fun!)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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food - (good, authentic, hearty, non-stuffy) italian, chinese, thai, english, french, belgian, german, irish, etc, etc.

drink - all decent beer from real ale I'm currently beardless & sandal-free, but I do like decent beer & (yegods!) occasionally folk music! but I swear I'm nothing like "the real ale tw*ts" in Viz!, to Belgie & German stuff, good Czech lager, US craftbrews, etc, etc but all that said, I'm not that much of a heavyweight - I tend only to go out about once a week - but you might persuade me? like good wine, gin, etc, don't tend to do cocktails or too posh restaurants, but again you might persuade me :~)

movies - loads - film noir (bogart, bacall, etc), odd old english stuff (powell & pressburger's "a matter of life & death" is just top!) some guilty pleasure stuff (I feel a bit dirty admitting this, but I have a soft spot for stuff like 4Weddings & watched most of LoveActually the other night - aaargh!) what else - I loved 'Downfall' (well it's grim, but it's v well done), I used to watch anything french just because it was french, but I'm getting a bit more discerning I think (= now I like *good* french film like Amelie, Read My Lips, etc).

I don't go to the picters to see a fillum - it's an Oirish thing as often as I'd like, but again, you might persuade me . . .

Books - I've not read much recently, but I mentioned a couple above, but also loved LordOfTheRings (it helped me to get thru a few months of working in a petrol station in my late teens!) The Curious Incident, HarryPotter, Perfume (Patrick Susskind), 2 biogs of Orson Welles (not sure why, but both good!) & a load more that aren't springing to mind., but incl Paolo Coelho, Mitch Albom, Mark Haddon,

Other stuff I like - Spooks (guilty pleasure again), Stephen Fry, Steve Coogan, Bjork, Chris Morris, good modern folk (Kate Rusby, etc) some of radio4 & some of radio3, but often radio2 too (another guilty pleasure).

I've enjoyed various bits of intelligent modern theatre schtuff (i.e. not Cats & Miserable Les) but don't go as often as I'd like (see above about being easily persuaded)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Not original, but true. Friends & family. Good music. Good food & drink. Sunlight(for the soul as well as vitaminD . . . or is it E, I forget?). Rivers (they help me chill out). Green places (ditto).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
oh I don't know, but spring is supposed to be the time when a young man's thoughts turns to what he's been thinking about all winter :~)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
ideally in a friendly pub, decent folks, good beer, daft talking, live music.

recently though, most often channel-surfing & finding nothing very satisfying! Help me out here :-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
sheesh! - I've admitted watching LoveActually - & you people want more!? (that said, if something needs answering - get in touch - you now know how easy I am to persuade)
You should message me if
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Your life depends on it. You've nothing better to do. You've something better to do, but on a whim decide to message me anyway.

vous pensez que mon Francais abominable est actuellement un petit peu sexy!