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  • Ages 33–48
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My self-summary
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I'm a professional musician and teacher/entrepreneur. I'm currently developing an education and international business services company. I also find myself looking into becoming a graphic designer, as art and illustration are two things I've always loved doing.

I'm looking for someone I can talk to easily - I guess I mean chemistry. Everything starts there.

I'm loyal, honest, grounded and a bohemian at heart, even if I don't always act like one...if you have an artistic, creative temperament, we're going to get along probably. Unless you voted for Dubya both times, of course.

I'm iconoclastic. I like oddball and eccentric but also sincerity and being real (as possible). I am mostly skeptical politically, basically left-leaning vein but not a card-carrying anything and I dislike group think, like George Orwell did. So if you voted for Dubya once, I'm ok with you!

I am interested in classic literature, history, old movies, psychological and philosophical introspection etc, but I also like absurdly goofy fill in the blank.
What I’m doing with my life
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See above...
I’m really good at
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Listening. Croquet with hedgehogs. Buying gifts. Music. Talking to cats.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Rock musician boots.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Anna Karenina, Voltaire, Hugo, Marquez, Maupassant, Conrad. Elmore Leonard. Herodotus. Carl Jung. NOT Faulkner. Styron. European, English and Middle Eastern history. The New York Review of Books, The Economist.

Current faves: Keith Richards' memoir, Orwell's Homage to Catalonia, and a travel book about Eastern Europe between the wars, "Between the Woods and the Water." Inferno (WW2 history.)

Movies / TV:
Fantastic Mr. Fox, Tangled (the horse!), Tarkovsky's Andrei Rublev, Bourne movies, Marriage, Italian Style. Treasure of the Sierra Madre, LOTR, The Hobbit, Newsradio, Big Bang Theory, BBC Sherlock Holmes, Who Shot Liberty Valence?, The Avengers, Fitzcarraldo, Maltese Falcon, The Lion in Winter, Original Star Trek, Antonioni's l'Avventura, Star Wars (IV), Nights of Cabiria, Jacques Tati's movies. The Addams Family. Beetlejuice. ETC!!

Directors: John Huston, Billy Wilder's films, Kurosawa, Sergio Leone, the Marx Brothers, Hitchcock, Vittorio de Sica, Antonioni, early Fellini, Mel Brooks

Music: Jimi Hendrix, Marvin Gaye, jazz from the 50's and 60's. James Brown, En Vogue, Curtis Mayfield, Al Green, Rolling Stones, JS Bach, Sly and Parliament, Amadou and Mariam, Cocteau Twins, Siouxsie and the Banshees, a lot of other punk and post-punk groups. All the classic Blues players, especially Muddy Waters, BB King, Albert King and Albert Collins. Bobby Bland. Chopin. The Minutemen. Debussy. Satie. Late Mozart. Stevie Wonder. Marin Marais and that Lully guy. Joy Division, Cheb Khaled, a lot of Middle Eastern and African music. A lot of Latin Jazz recently .

Food: Middle Eastern, Japanese, Korean, Thai, Italian, Mexican and Indian. I'm mostly into Korean and Indian these days.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, Golden Gate park, friends, good drummers, my magic penny from 12th century, coffee maker, yoga, pagan deities. Clipper card.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Current album I am making, Jung, Hinduism, the weirdness and challenges of operating a business, the crazy vicissitudes of the music industry...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Reading, recording something, seeing a movie, hearing a band, playing a gig, yogaing..
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've performed with the children of famous even legendary musicians!
You should message me if
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you are interesting attractive and slightly wild.