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42 West Haven, CT Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 33–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:55pm
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Not at all
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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I'm a very low-key, laid-back guy who is looking to start the next chapter in my life. I'm on the lookout for a more rewarding job, new opportunities to meet people, and to make life as enjoyable as possible. And while I've become a lot more comfortable doing things on my own, it would be so much nicer if I had someone along for the ride. I think being friends first is very important, and if it we're just meant to be friends that's okay too. I try to keep my expectations realistic and let things happen the way they are meant to. I also believe it's important to see things from others' points of view whenever possible and to respect that. I hope that my ideal match would feel the same.

For me, a good time could be anything from going to a festival, seeing a concert, going bowling, or just taking a day trip someplace scenic. I'd be equally happy watching a movie or playing a game at home. I'm the type who likes to make plans in advance, but I can be spontaneous as well. I take things in stride and try to avoid personal drama. And I try to maintain a sense of humor, no matter what the situation -- not always easy, but it keeps life interesting.
What I’m doing with my life
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My main goal right now is simply to find ways to improve the quality of my life. I'm actively pursuing a more satisfying job, while also looking for new social opportunities and of course, someone to enjoy these new experiences with. These things are rarely easy to come by, but if I've learned anything, it's that nothing good comes from wishing for things while not actually doing anything to achieve them.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Pop music trivia, board/card games, problem solving, puzzles, making people laugh, helping others, listening, giving advice
The first things people usually notice about me
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My height. And the fact that I sometimes come across as quiet and reserved. But that will change pretty quickly once I get to know you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books -- primarily mystery/suspense novels...James Patterson, Jeffrey Deaver, Michael Connelly, just to name a few...I'm up for suggestions too

Movies -- thrillers, comedies, some dramas -- nothing overly violent or raunchy, though

Music -- I'm what you might call a "music nerd." I'm the guy who can tell you who sang any song and probably what year it came out. My favorite music is primarily 80's and 90's pop, but I like a wide variety from the 60's through the present day

Food -- American, Chinese, Seafood, Pizza, BBQ
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The Internet
Games (board, party, card games, my opinion, the perfect night out with friends)
Positive people in my life
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where I'd like to travel next -- a Caribbean cruise, perhaps?

How to improve myself, and the quality of my life

Why other people think and act the way they do...I'm totally fascinated with human psychology

Totally random things that pop into my head (I tend to remember the most useless details...)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually either visiting with friends or watching a movie at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've worked my way through a lot of personal demons to get where I am today, but I'm a better person for it. I find that my experiences have made me a lot less judgmental, and more accepting of others.
You should message me if
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You have a good sense of humor, and are looking for a friendship that could develop into something more.