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41 West Haven, CT Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 22
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
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Graduated from university
Relationship Status
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Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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This whole meeting people online is a bit awkward for me, but at the same time I find that I don't get too many opportunities to meet new people in my day-to-day life. I have several good friends, but really would like to find new activities that will allow me to expand my personal network. I was very shy and reserved growing up, and feel like I missed out on a lot as a result. I'm always ready to go out and have a good time with people, but sometimes the right people don't seem to be there. One of my goals is to find more fun, interesting ways to spend my time and perhaps somebody great to do that with.

I love to travel, listen to music, go for long walks, read, watch movies, play games and make people laugh.
What I’m doing with my life
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My main goal right now is simply to find ways to improve the quality of my life. I'm actively pursuing a more satisfying job, while also looking for new social opportunities and of course, someone to enjoy these new experiences with. These things are rarely easy to come by, but if I've learned anything, it's that nothing good comes from wishing for things while not actually doing anything to achieve them.
I’m really good at
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Pop music trivia, board/card games, problem solving, puzzles, making people laugh, helping others, listening, giving advice
The first things people usually notice about me
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My height. And the fact that I sometimes come across as quiet and reserved. But that will change pretty quickly once I get to know you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books -- mystery novels.

Movies -- thrillers, comedies, some dramas -- however, I don't like anything with graphic violence, or excessive amounts of R-rated material

Music -- I have a major obsession with popular music. I know more about this subject that any one person should. As for preferences, I grew up on Top 40, and like a wide variety of pop music from the 70s onward.

TV Shows -- (current shows) Elementary, Psych, Burn Notice, The Glades (older shows) 24, Monk, Alias

Food -- American, Chinese, Seafood, Pizza, BBQ
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The Internet
Games (Board/card/party games...I love them all)
Positive people in my life
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My future and what I'd really like to do with it...not as easy as you'd think!

Where I'd like to travel next

Why other people think and act the way they do

Totally random things that pop into my head (I tend to remember the most useless details...)

Why this site keeps pointing me towards "ideal matches" who are clearly looking for someone younger, or who live way too far away...

Why so many of the questions on this site have nothing whatsoever to do with how I'd get along with a potential match...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually either visiting with friends or watching a movie at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've worked my way through a lot of anxiety issues to get where I am today. I still have some irrational fear when it comes to how others judge me, but at the same time I am the least judgmental person you will ever meet.
You should message me if
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Anything at all on this profile strikes your interest. Or you just need a friend, and are not quick to judge other people.

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