Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am starting to think I am not really the person people typically
look for on this site. Which works, I guess, if you are looking for
I don't really have an inclination for outdoor activities, sports
events, or concerts.
I don't drink or go to bars, I am not into music as a hobby, and
art bores me.
I feel completely out of touch with the profiles I come across on
this site, and I have somehow lost any semblance of the gauge
required to send a provocative and interesting message.
The worst part of it all, is that I don't really see this as
something that is my responsibility to remedy, and when I think
about making changes I realize that it is everyone else that is
wrong in their approach and preferences.
Of course, I am willing to see past all of that if you are. Truth
be told, aside from my new found apathy, I am not all that
I am the type of person to invest completely into what I am doing.
It doesn't matter if it is work related (even doing jobs I hate),
social pursuits, intellectual curiosities, or one of my hobbies; I
always commit to getting the most out of it.
Honesty, intensity, and humor are the traits I value most in both
myself and others. If those traits are something you hold in high
regard, then we might be a good fit.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Director of Operations at BLOW Hookah, LLC
I have also done some writing (epic fantasy), which I am in the
process of getting published.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I have a knack for organization, a penchant for writing and story
telling, and a flair for speaking in front of groups of people.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Physically, I would have to say my eyes. They are strikingly blue.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My favorite genre of book is epic fantasy. I like to read about
groups of adventurers more than about a lone hero though. I like
the World of Warcraft books, the Dragonlance Chronicles, Hawkmoon,
and the Codex Alera series. I go through a new series every couple
of months, and I am currently going through the Wheel of Time of
series. I read a lot of non-fiction as well, though it usually less
intentional. I hear about something that sounds interesting and
decide to check it out.
I am an avid moviegoer, and will watch dozens of new release movies
each year. I also rent a lot of movies from Redbox. I don't have a
specific type I will or wont watch, and will watch just about
anything once. Some movies I enjoyed watching include Snatch, Lucky
Number Sleven, Dogma, The Departed, the Matrix series, most super
hero movies, Clerks, Sin City, most big budget animated movies, and
most epic fantasy movies.
I don't watch T.V. as much as most people, but my roommate got me
into a few of the shows that everyone else seems to think of as
must-sees. Parks and Rec, The League, The Blacklist, and The Office
are some of the shows I have enjoyed more recently. I like to watch
the WWE Network as well.
As for food, I enjoy seafood and Italian cuisine the most. I wont
shy away from anything though, and I will be the first person to
try out any dish that is put in front of me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Good company. I mean it. I like to play games and have
conversations, and that requires people to share in the fun.
2. Entertainment. Movies, games, bowling, swimming, going to the
park; I need something to occupy my free time.
3. Stability. I like having a steady job, paid bills, and reliable
people in my life. I am the type of person to prioritize handling
things that need to get done over other things I want to do.
4. Good food. I am not talking about sustenance just to sustain
myself. I am talking about delicious food engineered specifically
to be savored. If you have any suggestions, feel free to let me
5. Goals. Small or big, I am the type of person to set out to
complete something. I enjoy the satisfaction of feeling like I
6. Laughter. I love to laugh, and I love to make the people around
me laugh. I tend to be no-holds-barred with my humor, and I will
make or laugh at any joke if I think it is funny, regardless of the
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Right now, I have been thinking about getting back into meeting new
people. The past couple of months I have been a bit distracted with
hobbies, moving into a new place, and dealing with stuff for work.
Things have finally calmed down though, and now the only major
thing I find myself left wanting for is romantic companionship.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Most Friday nights I spend time with a core group of like-minded
people at a local hobby shop called The Bunker. We play
board-games, card games, and get dinner and hang out. It's a really
cool place to spend a Friday night if you are into that sort of
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I will be a "kid at heart" until the day I die, and it frustrates
me when people find that to be immature.
I like some Nickleback songs.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
... you are someone that gets excited when I bring a container of
... having a date planned for that night makes you smile all
If you are interested in hanging out, with at least some intention
of establishing a long term relationship (eventually), and see me
as someone that would be a good fit, I would argue that is as good
a place to start as any.
Honestly, as long as you get the impression we might get along and
aren't just looking for some casual fling, or are looking for
someone to be 'just friends' with, I think we have similar enough
goals in mind to give messaging each other a shot.
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