42 Oak Park, IL
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My self-summary
I am a musician and restaurant geek who has just started a sausage business in the Chicago area!
I am in a POLYAMOROUS marriage to my best friend!
We date separately as well as together and are loving our lifestyle!

Kindness, love and honesty are very important to me, so please, if you don't have something nice to say...

Send me a message, I love to chat, but I am not looking for an online relationship. I like real face to face time. The human connection is very important to me!
What I’m doing with my life
I am in management and consulting in the hospitality world. Currently I am searching for the right location to open a restaurant of my own!
I'm a huge music fan. I used to be on stage as often as I could, but that's slowed a bit. I still practice and write when I can, but the culinary world is a demanding one!
I’m really good at
As a restaurant jockey, I've really learned my chops in a kitchen. Maybe I'll make you dinner sometime!
I'm also an accomplished musician and I've spent a good deal of time on the scene playing guitar with my wife, the best singer I'll ever know!
I'd like to think that I'm good at making people laugh, but let's be honest here, I'm not always as funny as I'd like to think I am! ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
Good question!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books? I don't read as often as I used to.
I do read a lot of cook books.
I love Hunter Thompson.
A Walk In The Woods by Bill Bryson tickled me pink and I often look back at Keith Richards LIFE.

I love movies. Cool Hand Luke, Empire Of The Sun. Breakfast At Tiffany's. American Beauty. MEL BROOKS!!! The Shining, Nobody's Fool, Coal Miner's Daughter, The Last Waltz. I could go on and on and on...

Music is a loved topic. I love Jazz and Blues from the 1920s on. Classic rock, ooooh boy, don't get me started.
The bands/artists I dig most…

Howlin' Wolf
Led Zeppelin
The Black Crowes
Django Reinhardt
Mr. Blotto
Miles Davis
Charlie Parker
The Grateful Dead
Son House
Muddy Waters
Van Morrison
and, well, you get the picture!

OK. I didn't really watch much TV a few years ago, but the stories have gotten way too good to pass up.
The Walking Dead
Breaking Bad
The Americans
True Detective
Dowton Abbey
All In The Family
And so on...
The six things I could never do without
Music, food and my family.
Nature is a big one. Beer is another!

Let's not forget popcorn.
Not the microwave crap either.
Made in a pot with good olive oil, salt and pepper.

Yes. I know that's 7.

I really like popcorn.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
On a typical Friday night I am
Getting in to trouble or playing music, which often leads to getting in to trouble!

Sometimes I stay home and think about toasters.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't think about toasters as much as it may appear.

And I really dig kink!
You should message me if
You're open minded, fun loving and in need of a fantastic home cooked meal!