I broke up with my girlfriend of a year, i wasn't really finding anyone with in my social circles that i was really interested in. I dated around but jus wasn't clicking with anyone. I have a group of friends here in Columbia City, we hang out all the time. One of my friends met a girl on here. they started dating and now pretty much live together. She has become a staple in the group and all of our friends have accepted her as our surrogate maternal caregiver. They suggested to me to start a profile on here.
I was reluctant at first due to: all the horror stories i've ever read, countless made for t.v. movies, and real life experience from people i know or knew personally about internet stalkers or people online who are not completely honest about y they use sites like this one. Then I thought about my two friends and decided maybe I could find someone.
I still hesitated though because i figured most girls on these sites would prolly think that i was one of those less than reputable people. One day I was eating a peanut butter and jelly sandwich hanging wit my homies, I was in between a bite watching The Dark Knight. It was at the part the Joker was telling Gambol the story of how he got his scars. "my father was a drinker, and a FEIND. One night he goes off crazier than usual."
It was at this point i was finished with my sandwich got on the computer and came here okcupid.completely spontaneous and random, and no one was expecting me to do it. But then again i like being spontaneous and random. "Life is an adventure and i want to be hero of my story."
I came here to meet potential mates i guess, but more so for friendship because my last relationship was based on friendship, not sex like many of my other ones. In fact we were together for a year and never once had sex. we were intimate and i believe we made love but we never did the nasty.
Due to circumstances we broke it off. do i still care about her? yes, we don't see each other any more but still talk every now and then. There is no future for us and we know that. maybe one day ill tell you the story of what i believe to be the best relationship I have ever had thus far in my life, but thats a story for another day.
Anyway because of that life experience i now know that the really great relationships are based on friendship. So now im here looking for friendship in hopes of possibly finding that one person.
I am divorced and i have 1 daughter madison. She is five, she lives with her mom but i see her all the time.

At the Moment I am Unemployed. I am currently looking for a job, and gearing up to continue my education next fall. no big moves planned for the near future, just trying to get through life right now. I hang out with friends, family, and my daughter. I like going out and doing things, concerts, camping, road trips, i like getting physical, working out, playing games. I also like to chill with my friends and jus play wii or read. im the kind of guy thats adaptable.

I am artistic,i am good at telling stories, making people laugh and putting smiles on faces.

I am a big guy. I am about 5'8", some people say they thought i was taller, I have dark hair and deep dark brown eyes, which I've been told are incredibly sexy. i have broad shoulders, i am pretty laid back, very creative and funny. oh, people also usually think im younger than i am. i've been told i look as young as 18 at times. some people think im weird at first but then they get to know me a lil better and i become like a brother or a member of the family. My dad only had one other son but i have many brothers.
i've also been called a gentle giant. People say i'm funny, energetic, spontaneous, reliable, a true friend, a good dad, strong, optimistic, helpful, objective, a good listener, a good talker, and intelligent. there are other word but i feel like stopping now, and i'm not an angel but i do have angelic tendencies. I'm not a demon but have been known to dance with the devil by the pale moon light.

I like R.A.Salvator, i like fantasy books and read a lot. Not just fantasy also nonfiction. I like watching fantasy, sci fi, horror, actions and comedies. Dont really have a fav, jus depends on my mood. I like Mexican, Italian, seafood, Japanese(i want to try sushi), Chineese, and a burger or hot dogs.

Movies: X-men trilogy, Kevin Smith Movies, Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter, Star Wars, Friday the Thirteenth, Transformers, Count of Monte Cristo, Grandma's boy, Adam Sandler, Jet li, 300, Sweeny Todd, Nightmare before Christmas, Illusionist, The Dark Knight, Batman Begins, Spiderman, Conan the Barbarian, ferris beulers day off. Fight Club, American History X, Anchorman, Dazed and Confused, Donnie Darko, Evil dead movies, Saw series, Casino Royale, Out Cold, Peter Pan, The Princess Bride, Empire Records, Taken, Iron Man, Wanted, star trek, wolverine, T2:rise of the fallen,

T.V.: Smallville, Supernatural, Burn Notice, Psyche, South Park, Wrestling, UFC, reality T.V., Mythbusters, The Daily Show, Metalocalypse, Family Guy, Harvey Birdman Attorney at Law, The Brak Show

I also play a lot of video games. Gears of War, Final Fantasy, Last Remnant, Zelda, GTA, Super Smash Bros., love my Wii, God of War series, and others.
if your thinking "god how does he make time for all that?" all the various activities: t.v. shows, movies, video games, friends, family, going out, spending time with my daughter, and other various extracurricular activities jus remember i like to shake things up and im not goin to school at the present or have a job. My mind is constantly goin so i need an out let or id probably explode. and not in the good way.

laughter, friends, my daughter, Family, still deciding on the other two.

My stories im writing. my dnd group. music, my best friends have a band, the Lost Kause. I also think about my daughter a lot. and magic the gathering.

hanging with my kid, or friends. When im with friends usually doin the bar o karaoke thing. sumtimes both. I do drink but not all the time. n i dont usually get drunk. jus like to have a good time.

My brother has a life size birthmark of Australia on his penis.

You wanna hang, just talk cus you be bored, o you want to get to know me.