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56 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:46pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), German (Okay), Esperanto (Poorly)

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My self-summary
The kind of connection I prefer includes listening, conversation, affection, quiet candlelit cuddling, and sparks as our fingertips touch, igniting fires deep within us.

I'm passionate about being outside and learning about the world around us. I hope you'd want to join me.

I enjoy indie and non-violent films at various venues in the Bay Area. Sharing our perspectives about the film afterwards is almost as much fun as watching the film!

The City Arts & Lectures and The Commonwealth Club are places I enjoy hearing a wide variety of interesting speakers talk about many different topics. I'm hoping my partner would enjoy joining me sometimes.

Places I'd like to continue to explore include beaches at Point Reyes, biking or walking across the Golden Gate Bridge, hiking trails on Mount Tam and the Marin Headlands and camping in Yosemite and at music festivals.

I love going to concerts performed by singer songwriters like Catie Curtis, Blame Sally, and Lucy Kaplansky (to name only 3) at Freight and Salvage in Berkeley.

Here's a liberating way to think about this process of of finding the love we seek:
"Life expands or contracts in direct proportion to one's courage."
- Anais Nin

I'm open, curious and fun! Looking for a wonderful woman to join me in exploring all that the bay area and the broader world offers.

If you resonate with any of this, please be courageous and send me a note.
What I’m doing with my life
Hiking, Biking, Exploring, Camping, Listening and Smiling....

Monday through Friday I work for a government agency that is helping slow down climate change and global warming. I write reports and work on programs that encourage broadband deployment in rural / under served parts of California.
I’m really good at
Listening, appreciating, engaging in animated conversations, finding fun things to do to entertain ourselves, and giving massages.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Independent and foreign films like "Cairo Time," the film "Cirque du Soleil," "Midnight in Paris", "Lincoln", "Under the Tuscan Sun", "Chocolate", and mainstream films like "It's Complicated", "Annie Hall", and "The Notebook."

I love it when my weekly issue of "The New Yorker" arrives. The book "Shadow Dance" by David Richo. It's about the psychological theories of Carl Jung.

Kate Wolf's song:
"Give yourself to love.
Open your hearts to tears and laughter,
If love is what you're after.

Love is born in fire.
It's planted like a seed.
Love can't give you everything,
But love is what you need."
The six things I could never do without
Great Conversation
The New York Times & NPR
Strong coffee
Affection and nurturing sex
Dark chocolate
Walking, hiking, biking in natural surroundings or unique neighborhoods.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Finding fun / interesting things to do here in San Francisco.
What our elected leaders are doing (or not doing).
The woman I'm dating, when in a relationship.
On a typical Friday night I am
There is no typical Friday night.
One recent Friday evening I was at the deYoung's Friday night party. The week before I saw a wonderful dance film called Piña at The Sundance Kabucki. The week before that I was having dinner with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The most private thing I'm willing to tell the world here besides what I wrote above is I live 3 blocks from Davies Symphony Hall in the fun Hayes Valley neighborhood of San Francisco.

I'll tell you more when we meet.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 49–59
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want to spend time with someone who is curious, smart, fun, affectionate and playful, who enjoys exploring the world around us. And sharing our thoughts and feelings that we have about the world and ourselves.