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  • Ages 23-38
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Last online
Nov 10
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
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I'm a happy go lucky fella with a surreal sense of humour. I'm very positive about life although I do enjoy an occasional good natured rant about rubbish. I talk a lot but also think a lot to, I can be very intelligent but also amazingly stupid. I'm always looking for adventures and like to try and make as much of every experience as I can.
What I’m doing with my life
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Quite a lot. I do a lot of acting and haven't had a gap from rehearsing or performing in the last two years. I'm extremely passionate about it and write plays, my first is to be performed soon which is really exciting. I also used to do stand up and I'm looking to go back to that soon but more with a character based puppetry angle. Hopefully it'll work but you never know about these things until an audience sees it.

I've also just moved into an amazing flat, a duplex apparently. Really comfortable with a balcony and cycle lanes everywhere so I finally think I've found the spot I'm meant to be for the next few years.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Guessing what'll happen next in films, although I keep that to myself. Oh and I'm also good at remembering who that actor is and what other thing I saw them in, comes in pretty handy in pub quizzes.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Woolly tank tops. I really, really like wearing knitted tank tops. I don't think it's that unusual, I mean they're comfy and colourful and just jumpers without sleeves but for some reason that's the first thing most people comment on.
I suppose as well that I talk a lot of whimsical nonsense, opinions on squirrels, wondering what folks are doing in Bhutan, people do ask, 'what are you on?' quite a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love reading classics, Dostoyevsky, Gogol, Tolstoy, Hesse, Mann, Grass, Bellow, Malamud, Wyndam Lewis, H.G Wells, Melville, Camus, Heller, Greene, and most especially George Orwell, I'll give most authors a go once. I also have a soft spot for fantasy Tolkien and Terry Pratchett from a young age and quite recently I enjoyed the 'Game of Thrones' books. Good sci fi and old fairy stories and legends float my boat too.
Not many female authors I know but I'm trying to put a few more on my shelf. I will say that I am deeply, deeply in love with everything by Annie Proulx.

Huge Wes Anderson fan, Coen brothers, Clint Eastwood and Paul Newman too. There's a quirky Western called 'the Life and Times of Judge Roy Bean' that I just love. Sergio Leone and Hitchcock and of course the sublime 'Anchorman.' I'm not saying that I want to be Ron Burgundy, I just want to be near him.

Columbo... and that's it, nuff said, respect due.

Since I get bombarded with it so much in work, shops, and bars I tend to like a bit of radio 4 or chilling with a book instead.
I do love the funk but, Sly and the Family Stone, Funkadelic, Motown Soul. I went through a big Tom Waits and Leonard Cohen phase and I also like a bit of country, but good stuff like Kris Kristofferson, Johnny Cash or Willie Nelson. Folk music and folk Rock gets me as well, The Byrds, Joan Baez and Ennio Morricone just blows my mind.

Anything. I love new flavours and trying new recipies. I'm into stir fry's these days and fruit in salads. Anything with peppers does to. I'm not calling myself a vegetarian but I seem to be becoming one by accident. Can't eat enough fish and all dishes can be improved with bacon. Cheese and good wine become more and more important as I age and all the many varieties of mushroom as well.
However I hate sweetcorn, to the extent I feel uncomfortable if I even know it's in the same room as me. It's my enemy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Charity shop paperbacks
2. Notebooks and pens
3. A bicycle
4. Fancy cheeses, good wine, and mushrooms
5. Art Galleries
6. Family, but Mum would get really pissed if she heard I referred to her as a thing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Stories and plays I'm trying to write. I daydream about characters and dialogue, to be fair I spend more time on the daydreaming than I do on the actual writing but there you go. I also think about squirrels and Bhutan a lot but I think I mentioned that.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working usually. I'm a restaurant supervisor so Fridays and Saturdays are pretty much taken. It's a job I genuinely enjoy. I like working with great food and wine and get a great feeling from making somebody's night out special.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm allergic to a pollen and I don't know what it is but every time I used to walk past Springfield Park in Hackney I would come out in a crazy allergic reaction. Only place in the world it ever happens. why is that?
You should message me if
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If you really understand what empathy is. If you live without prejudice but treasure experience.