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35 Indianapolis, IN Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 1:27pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, and might want more
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm honest, emotionally expressive, sharp-witted, dry-humored, hopelessly ethereal, hopelessly romantic, adventurous, overtly empathetic, mildly eccentric, trivia-laden, and so on. I've followed my heart even when I shouldn't have. I regret a few choices in life. Musically inclined. Vertically challenged. I'm extremely loyal to my friends.
I'm not hip, nor a hipster, nor a hippie. I don't care about craft beers, but you won't catch me drinking Coors. I'm not into socialism or it's many guises. I'm not on Facebook, myspace, twitter, or that photo job thing everyone seems to be connected to. I don't understand the hoopla over Mumford & Sons. I've not read a damn thing from Chuck Palahooey. I don't play the acoustic or the ukulele. Sorry...Maybe you can convince me otherwise.

I've been single for a few years now, outta the scene for ever.

I'm apparently looking to meet someone here, I think..
What I’m doing with my life
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Working, playing music, missing rugby, finishing school, working, parenting, searching w/ my good eye closed.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Apparently being uninteresting to women....hello? Strike that. I'm good at starting week to month long conversations on OKC and then the women I'm chatting with just UFO abductee disappear....weird. Useless trivia, quoting movies, discovering obscure bands, empathizing with others, starting an 'I wanna know' conversation and ending up with more questions, crosswords, cooking, remembering faces, showing respect, retention pond fishing in suburbia
The first things people usually notice about me
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a booger hanging from my nose
a jacked up thumb and my 'thumbdex' finger
their reflection or sun glare
unusually low voice? ("how does it feel baby?")
look of incarceration?..
perhaps my eyes or manners...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music is an enormous part of my life. Outside of drumming, finding new music is most enjoyable. Love live music, although Indy's scene is kinda drab....other cities are within driving distance!
Current favs: Oceansize ,Colour Haze, Cult of Luna, Radio Moscow, Built to Spill, Riverside, Porcupine Tree, Melvins, Horn of the Rhino, Torche, The Ocean, The Sword, Horse the Band, Primus & other Les Claypool projects, King Crimson, Charlie Parker, Miles Davis, Toadies, Quicksand, Helmet, Talking Heads, Beethoven, Chopin, many others

Books- History, zombie, horror, Poe

Shows- not much TV, AMC shows, H2, Animal Planet, Adult Swim, Family Guy
Movies- Indie, Foreign, occasional 3D blockbuster, War, Drama, Dark Comedy,

Food- Interested to try new foods, Seafood looks so delicious, but usually disappoints, Italian, Mexican, German, Greek, Vienna Beef...guilty pleasure.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
oxygen, H2O, food, clothing, nature, music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If I'm actually in a dream, or if life has become someone's joke. Choices I've made. How to increase happiness. If scientists have discovered how to reverse the baldness gene and they're being paid off by Bosley to keep it a secret..heh. The word, "awesome" has become so "awesome" that nothing is quite "awesome" anymore. The unfathomable size and wonder of the universe. And, do that many guys on here ask to just 'hook up' for sex?? I swear that 1 out of 3 of you ladies mention not to do that somewhere in your profile. The old adage must be true...Men are pigs.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With my kids, at a live show, creating sound effects w/ my friend's micro Korg (and coveting it), watching a movie, On OKCupid getting silent treatments.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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The M&M's commercials freak me out.
You should message me if
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you are an extraterrestrial being or you know how the pyramids were built, you're as nervous as I am about armageddon coming in the form of a zombie apocolypse, you know of a cool joint to catch good live music, you think there's a good possibility I might be fun to meet in person, or you think I'm 12 years old and pulled this poor idiot's pictures off the web somewhere :) :():0lolololololololol?
haha, seriously though...could be 12.

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