I have not had a relationship for a very long time, as I was not ready until now. I have how ever put on some weight and am a bit self conscious about it. The good thing is, is that I have spent the last year at the gym and am slowly, but surely getting myself back physically. I may not look as good as I did when I was young, but I want to be healthy and in good shape. I have reached many goals in the last year and would love extra encouragement and to be accepted for who I am now.
As out spoken or loud as I can be, I am actually very shy, especially around people I don't know, large groups of people, and out of my comfort zone.
I do not want to have kids or to get married. If you have kids that is ok. I would like to have a relationship that feels healthy and has potential. I am not jealous or possessive, I feel love should set you free, not confine. I do not expect people to change for me, but an occasional compromise is always welcome. I am about truth and will always be honest with you and I expect the same in return.