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30 M Amsterdam, Netherlands

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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6′ 4″ (1.93m)
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Graduated from masters program
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English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm a sucker for playful banter. I like to hop through conversations jumping from the serious stuff to the ridiculous and foolish things. I get borred fast and I do not like to talk just to talk. I enjoy challenging people, I look for emotions and personality. I have a high tolorance for akwardness. I think a lot about life and people. I like the word shenanigans and everything it means. I can be direct and argumantative, I can also be nice.
What I’m doing with my life
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Exploring the planet and working, I never thought working could be so much fun. I studied and hung around mother earth to steer clear of the work monster. It's all good though, I had an amazing first job. Apparently I love working as long as I can lead, explore and experiment. After that I decided to go and look for a job in San Francisco. I wanted to be a startup kid. That did not work, happy I tried though. Back at it in Amsterdam at the moment.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.

I love to cook and experiment in the kitchen. That means I am very good at experimenting, no guarantees for the outcome of the experiment.

Following up and not being flaky.
The first things people usually notice about me
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In the US everybody thinks I'm a girl because of my name. In Europe they use if for guys too, just wanted to have that out there.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Christopher Nolan's Batman, American Beauty, 500 days of Summer, Underworld, Black Swan, Star Trek, Bloodbrother, Black Fish, House of Cards, True Detective, Homeland.

7 Habits, Short history of nearly everything, When Nietzsche wept, everything by Ricardo Semler, Good to Great, Guns Germs and Steel, Carl Jung's Autobiography, stuff about politics and philosophy. I am a non-fiction addict.

The National, Broken Bells, Amos Lee, Fink, Zulu Winter, Lorde, The XX, Big Boi, Digitalism, Interpol, the Deep Dark Indie playlist on Spotify (especially yummy now autumn is coming up) and the alltime classics, Tool and Incubus.

And food, anything that has love as its main ingredient. It can be Thai, Indonesian, Italian, Mediterranean and whatever else.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Knowledge and wisdom (It's sexy), Green Coconut Curry from the Thai Bird in Amsterdam, good music and the curvy powerful wetness of a shapely barrel wave.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The way people interact with each other. Why they do what they do? I find it fascinating.

Am I conscious of me, or am I missing things I still can't see?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Drinking, cooking and dining with friends. Chatting with new people I meet. And finally, not meeting up with my friends because I'd rather sit at home and wait for adventure to happen. Sometimes nothing happens and sometimes something does, I love those nights.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like listening to Jennifer Rush because it makes me think of my mom vacuuming and dancing through the living room.

And, Bruce Lee rocks my world.
You should message me if
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..any of the above and I'd love to hear from you.

So, if you sent me a message and I don't send anything back, that means I'm not interested. Thank you for your kind words though. In case I do, and we will exchange a few messages, know that I will never stop talking in the middle of a conversation. I think that is rude. I don't appreciate it when ladies do this. Please have the courtesy to mention that you are not interested anymore. I can assure you that I can take it. Sometimes the conversation ends naturally, in that case it's all good. And we all fuck up sometimes too, shit happens.