***Currently in a relationship. Vanilla no less.***
So how it that possible? Libertarian, conservative, AND liberal?
Well, I am libertarian politically, conservative personally, and
liberal in the sexual arena.
With that in mind I might as well get this out from the beginning.
I am absolutely certain I am looking for a long term relationship
with that special someone. However, I have dabbled in "The
Lifestyle" both with a partner and as a single male and I am
definitely a proponent of such a relationship. I realize that I am
eliminating 99.9% of the women that read this but I want to be
honest from the start. Actually I may not be eliminating as many as
I think I am; I am discovering that there are a lot of people out
there leading "second lives".
To sum it up simply I am seeking my life partner and my lifestyle
...and having said all that, this does not necessarily mean
"playing with others". It might but I have found the sexually
charged atmosphere of the LS is more important to me than multiple
partners. All couples in the LS have different parameters and
depending on the partner they can land at different levels. I have
a vision of how such a relationship should evolve and it is a slow
and steady one that of course requires we are quite secure with
What I’m doing with my life
I work at Walmart (Middletown in the produce area) and if that
doesn't seem too ambitious I can only tell you I enjoy it, the
company isn't going anywhere, and you never have to worry about me
working for a living. I almost never bring the job home with me so
I am able to devote non-work time to..hmm...I dunno...my partner
If you are local and stop in the Walmart feel free to say hello.
I'm an easy bunch.
I’m really good at
What am I good at? How about treating YOU decently. I tend to think
of myself as a "foundation mate" With yours truly you never have to
be concerned about the basic foundations of a relationship. I don't
smoke, I don't do drugs, I drink about a case of beer..a year. I
don't hit, I work hard, I'm respectful, and (keeping the possible
above framework in mind) I am faithful. Yes, emotionally and
spiritually I do in fact have a strong will to be faithful. Oh I am
the perfect "sports husband" because I enjoy sports enough to "be a
guy" but not obsessed with it. I am one of the few guys that
actually enjoys shopping specifically resale shopping. I pretty
much miss most of the first half of the NFL season because I would
rather go to the flea market. Now when the playoffs start....
I am also very good at communication perhaps too good. I am rather
OCD about quickly returning texts and emails.
I read Mars/Venus and actually have put some of it into practice.
Funny story about that book that I will share on the first date.
The first things people usually notice about me
Darned if I know...I like to think I'm still kinda cute and lookin'
quite nifty at fifty! Well, probably that I bear a strong
resemblance to either Rick Moranis, Elton John, or William H Macy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I mostly read non-fiction politics, sometimes I read fiction
politics by liberals (mee-yow!). I love comics and cartoons and
having no kids of my own tend to measure my age by the characters
in "For Better or for Worse"....darn April grew up too fast! I like
most films except for gore fests and way too dopey love stories
(Hey after "Casablanca" why did they even make any more?), all time
fav movies are "The Wizard of Oz" and "Rudy". In fact my basic life
philosophy comes from "Rudy" when the Priest says, "I have come to
two irrefutible conclusions. One, there is a God. Two, I'm not
Him." I am a very picky eater and wish I wasn't. Musical tastes are
oldies, classic rock and country.
The six things I could never do without
My computer (I would sooner give up my fridge)
My pups (Boston Terriers Bumbles & Peanut) As of 08/29/08
Peanut has gone to Heaven....I miss him.
Cable (maybe I could live without it...but I do enjoy it)
Popcorn (fav snack)
Books (I have about 4000 and counting)
My bicycle. A good bike ride is a spiritual experience
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Politics world affairs that kind of thing. Right and wrong. How to
be as awesome as the people I consider to be awesome. I do take
some pride in my intelligence although I admit that PRACTICAL
intelligence is not something I have. I can engage in a political
debate but I am not much for changing the oil.
On a typical Friday night I am
Right now not doing a whole lot which is why I am here! Recently
realizing I was solidly in the middle of my mid-life crisis I
decided to do something I had never done before and finally got up
the nerve to sing Karaoke..and I was told I wasn't half bad!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I believe I covered that above!
You should message me if
Obviously that you are open to new and exciting possibilities (or
have already been there). I value intelligence, love of animals,
politeness, and respect. I have found as I have gotten older it has
become less important to me that my partner be hot but it has
become more important to me that we look good together. So if you
think we might...
..and of course as I said I am seeking a very sexually liberated
and empowered woman. I want us to be able to have a night out at a
lifestyles club or Meet & Greet, find our comfortable
parameters, and go from there.