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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26-46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 15
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
Has dogs
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm not sure what to write here.

I am a geek/dork/nerd at heart. I can be serious when the situation calls for it,you won't be embarrassed at a cocktail party or work function. But, I am also equally comfortable debating on any topic from astrophysics to comic books. I am a gamer but I make sure that I don't take it to the obsessive level. I read for fun and have a huge library of books, both physical and digital. If you ever need to borrow a book I'm your guy.

I am a bigger guy than most, but not obese (think football player not sumo wrestler lol) and contrary to the eye I am quite in shape. I work out 3-5 times a week and I love the me time that affords me. It lets me examine my headspace for cobwebs and random lost or buried treasure. Lol

I am gainfully employed and most days I love my job. I do however work really odd hours and it never stays the same from week to week. After I sold my company I got a typical m-f 9-5 job and it bored me to death so my reanimated corpse quit that and got myself the new one with the weird hours.

Really, I'm just looking for someone that I can be my real self around and have a lot of fun with.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am enjoying as much that life has to offer as I can. And seriously considering going back to school for psychology. In hind site, I think that I would have preferred that to aerospace engineering.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Telling stories (fun ones that happened, not made up lies)
Being truthful
Cooking (I'm a wiz with a wok)
Leather working (mostly mideval armor pieces but I can make anything out of leather, just tell me what you want)
Listening and if asked giving advice
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I get the, "hey have I met you before?" a lot. So either I have a terrible memory and have forgotten hundreds of people or I just have a friendly face.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Too many to list......
I like just about everything depending on my mood.

Books- text books and biographies to high fantasy and sci-fi

Music- I like it all. As long as it doesn't degrade women or belittle another's race then I'm down for it. Love going to concerts, both big and small venue.

Movies- Yes please! I primarily like Sci-fi and fantasy but a good movie is a good movie. Also a bad movie can be a good movie to me. I love Howard the Duck, Vibes, and all of the Librarian movies these are just a few examples of bad movies I like.

TV - I'm not a big tv watcher but I do enjoy the Big Bang Theory, Falling Skies, Suits, Through the Wormhole, Cosmos, Castle, Bones, Firefly, and Farscape. I catch them when I can and my dvr is almost full.

Food- favorite is Japanese then Chinese, Mexican and great BBQ
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family
My dog
The interwebs
And gadgets. Lots and lots of gadgets.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If I'm not a work I'm usually out with friends having a great time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a huge fan of batman. So much so that I had special lights installed in my car so when I open the driver or passenger front doors a bat signal shines on the ground.
You should message me if
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If any of the above piqued your interest.
If you just have a question for me.
You want to borrow a book.
You need a killer fried rice or bulgogi recipe.
If you are bored and just want to chat.