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40 • San Antonio, TX • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 26–46
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 9:44pm
- 6′ 0″ (1.83m)
- Body type
- A little extra
- Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Strictly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
- Has dogs
I am a geek/dork/nerd at heart. I can be serious when the situation calls for it,you won't be embarrassed at a cocktail party or work function. But, I am also equally comfortable debating on any topic from astrophysics to comic books. I am a gamer but I make sure that I don't take it to the obsessive level. I read for fun and have a huge library of books, both physical and digital. If you ever need to borrow a book I'm your guy.
I am a bigger guy than most, but not obese (think football player not sumo wrestler lol) and contrary to the eye I am quite in shape. I work out 3-5 times a week and I love the me time that affords me. It lets me examine my headspace for cobwebs and random lost or buried treasure. Lol
I am gainfully employed and most days I love my job. I do however work really odd hours and it never stays the same from week to week. After I sold my company I got a typical m-f 9-5 job and it bored me to death so my reanimated corpse quit that and got myself the new one with the weird hours.
Really, I'm just looking for someone that I can be my real self around and have a lot of fun with.
Cooking (I'm a wiz with a wok)
Leather working (mostly mideval armor pieces but I can make anything out of leather, just tell me what you want)
Listening and if asked giving advice
I like just about everything depending on my mood.
Books- text books and biographies to high fantasy and sci-fi
Music- I like it all. As long as it doesn't degrade women or belittle another's race then I'm down for it. Love going to concerts, both big and small venue.
Movies- Yes please! I primarily like Sci-fi and fantasy but a good movie is a good movie. Also a bad movie can be a good movie to me. I love Howard the Duck, Vibes, and all of the Librarian movies these are just a few examples of bad movies I like.
TV - I'm not a big tv watcher but I do enjoy the Big Bang Theory, Falling Skies, Suits, Through the Wormhole, Cosmos, Castle, Bones, Firefly, and Farscape. I catch them when I can and my dvr is almost full.
Food- favorite is Japanese then Chinese, Mexican and great BBQ
And gadgets. Lots and lots of gadgets.
If you just have a question for me.
You want to borrow a book.
You need a killer fried rice or bulgogi recipe.
If you are bored and just want to chat.
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