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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21-42
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:17am
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Inherently positive and a hopeless romantic, I find myself spending my days writing, cooking, reading, surfing, and hiking when not at work. I always have an anecdote to relate and am funny, kind, very handy, intelligent, motivated, and constantly active. Creativity, intelligence, and a sharp, sarcastic tongue are the traits that I find most attractive in women. I ususal mispell, mispronounce, or misremember words on purpose; I LoL a lot.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a copy editor, landscape contractor foreman, model, yoga instructor, author, handy man...professionally, I have a lot of diverse skills.

And, Yea, I'll say it. I'm not a punk without a care in the world any longer and I'm slowing down; some may even say I'm growing more mature (never!). I've had some great dates and been lucky enough to have met some truly wonderful women, but finding someone who's life is in rhythm with mine is important.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Helping the people around me flourish
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Top shelf in my bookcase is:
Charles Dickens' Works (1870 illust),Norton Anthology of Short Fiction, Norton Anthology of English Lit, Maus I/II(spiegelman), The "Annotated" Waste Land(elliot), The Short Stories of Ernest Hemmingway, The Complete Stories: Kafka, Sudden Fiction (continued), Transmission (kunzru), tinkers (harding), On The Road (kerouac), War Trash(ha jin), Mrs. Dalloway (woolf, v), Roman Fever (wharton), One Flew Over The Cookoo's Nest (kesey), The Electric Kool-Aid Acid Test(woolf, t) City of Theives(benioff) and The Riverside Shakespeare...few, deep breathe. Oh and Harry Potter for decompression

And I know it's becoming cliche for OKC but, All foods! Outside of sun dried tomatoes and pickled plumbs...bad experience with the ladder.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Really? Uhhhh...
1.The Ocean
2.A Thesaurus
3.My multi-tool
4.The Outdoors

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Puns, physics, ways of being sweet, super public and gratuitous ways of beinng sweet so everyone knows I'm sweet on you. Evolution, genetics, Shakespeare, religions, the arts, the silver lining, how many atomic bonds make up my room and who writes these silly okcupid questions lol
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Ignoring the world from the harbor of that special someone's embrace as rivulets of sweat cool in the inky night's heavy breath.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a sucker for a smart woman wearing glasses.

I CANNOT take a compliment. (This isn't an invitation to try lol, but know that positive thoughts are always appreciated)

I'm an absolute dork; in that stubborn(yea, I'll admit it) rugged manly firefighter way
You should message me if
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If there's room enough for {______this__much________} more awesome in your life

You don't mind some sloppy spelling in exchange for enthusiastic messages.

You want to trade awesomely ridiculous OKC date stories.

You like your profiles read bottom up.