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23 M Chicago, IL

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–27
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Sep 14
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Living in Bridgeport. Recent graduate. Trying to play shows and tour. Going to shows and the like in between. Sometimes pretending to be a hermit and just hanging out with animals.

I'm pretty shy with strangers, and often prefer to listen more than to speak, especially with new people.

Two of my roommates are also on this site. 10 points to whoever guesses them.

Side note: I've lost weight and axed the beard since those pictures.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
For now, music. Maybe grad school sometime.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Self deprecation. Making horrible puns/double entendres.

Doing my own thing for inordinate amounts of time.

The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My long hair.
I'm often told I look like jesus. I'm also typically in a band shirt.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
House of Leaves, various books by Nietzsche, Ishmael, Mythologies by Roland Barthes. I was into Alan Moore and Chuck Palahnuik once upon a time.
Obviously there's more, but. Give me book recommendations.

The Wire, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Tim and Eric Awesome Show, Great Job!, Moral Orel, Louie, Samurai Champloo to name a few.

Kicking and Screaming (1995), Clerks, Waking Life, Gummo, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Synecdoche, New York, American Movie, The Life Aquatic.
So many more.

Tom Waits, KEN mode, Fiona Apple, Tenement, Dillinger Escape Plan, Two Gallants, Thou, Mastodon, The Atlas Moth, John Coltrane, Elliott Smith, Queens of the Stone Age, Sun Ra, Django Reinhardt, Wes Montgomery, Jon Brion, Nujabes, Flying Lotus
Various other bands in genres like: Sludge/doom, shoegaze, post-rock, math rock, avant-garde jazz, 20th century classical music, singer-songwriter junk, ambient/drone, DIY punk/hardcore/metal stuff
...this list could go on and on

I'm vegetarian, but otherwise not that picky. But I'm mostly a sucker for baked goods. I also eat mushrooms very regularly. And goat cheese.

Recent enjoyments include the show Spaced, the Mountain Goats' The Sunset Tree, Delicate Steve, various Studio Ghibli films, A Town Called Panic (I love stop motion).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Participating in music somehow
Human interaction
Alone time
Animals to hang out with
Changing seasons (I live for summer)
My oddly enjoyable family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Zizek's saliva
What to cook next
What album to download/listen to
What movie to watch when I eat
What I need to do within the next 24 hours.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At shows, playing shows, hanging out, or being alone.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have only ever asked a girl for her number in person once. And that took way more courage for me than any show I've ever done. This translates to my trouble messaging people on here.
You should message me if
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You want to stop reading this weird page as much as I would.

You want to hang out and watch Dr. Katz.

You have bands/music to recommend to me.

You want to go to a show.

You want to start a band.

You want to talk about art/film/cultural studies or any of the like.