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Mike_McC_

32 M Elmhurst, NY

My Details

Last Online
Aug 29
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a 32 year old, polyamorous, queer, cis-man. I have been with my husband Vinum_Capit for 7 years, and we are looking to expand our circle of friends / lovers.

We are not "experimenting". We're not looking to "hook-up". We're not looking for a "third". We date separately and on very rare occasions together.

I'm looking for new friends, people to hang out with after work, and if all things go well, someone to go out and explore this wonderful city with.

I work for a really big corporation making Big Data look pretty. I also am very involved in the arts and am active in a theater. I love to play the guitar, make up silly songs to make people laugh and then turn it all around and sing a beautiful heartfelt ballad.

I absolutely love the outdoors. I grew up hearing "Go Outside and play, you're driving me crazy!" So therefore I spent a lot of time outdoors. I still love to get out of the city and go camping at any chance I can get.

I had my first poly experience when I was 16. The three of us were practically inseparable for over almost year. Eventually, I became monogamous with one of them and remained friends with the other. I fell in love with the dynamic and have been looking for that level of closeness ever since. I love finding the connection between people, what their interests are and what makes them tick. What excites other people, what turns them on, what gets their creative, sexy, juices flowing.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Doing my best to be legen - wait for it. . .
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening and being empathetic. I love hearing people's stories and relating to them. I've been told that I give really great advice by telling people the truth and not just what they want to hear.

I'm also really good at drinking good beer.

Sometimes these three things coincide and it's magical.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
UPDATE: Spring is almost here, so my lovely handlebar moustache will be no more until the fall/winter. I'll be nice and clean shaven, for those of you who prefer that. For those that don't, it will return in 6 months for Movember!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This will change I'm sure, but for now I'll give the top five in each in no particular order. Please keep in mind this is just off the top of my head, otherwise I'll be here all night agonizing over each decision.

Books:
American Gods
Catcher in the Rye
Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy
A Song of Ice and Fire
World War Z

Movies:
The Dark Knight
American History X
Boondock Saints
Juno
Star Wars (Episodes IV, V, & VI)

Shows:
Game of Thrones
Walking Dead
Buffy (Don't judge, Joss Whedon is amazing)
Doctor Who (I am a Whovian and have my own Sonic Screwdriver)
Dr. Horrible's Sing-a-long Blog (Again the amazingness of Joss Whedon)

Music:
Tom Waits
Damien Rice
Luke Kelly
Beatles
Jug Bands

Food:
Anything my brother cooks
Anything my husband cooks
Select things that I cook
Beer
Whiskey
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Physical Connection
Family (my friends are my family)
Making Music
Books
Imagination
You
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What other people are thinking. I'm completely fascinated by other people's thought process. If you are easily annoyed by someone asking you "What are you thinking" then we might have problems.

Also I spend a good amount of every day thinking about the Zombie Apocalypse. I find myself walking past buildings and rating them on potential survivability scale during an outbreak.

Whether or not a big blue box is going to suddenly appear in front of me.

Making out.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working my second job.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've cried while watching Buffy and Doctor Who. More than once. Shut up.

I love answering questions. If there's something you want to know, go ahead and ask. I'll give you an honest answer.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 27–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You think I should have messaged you, and you think it's kind of cute that I can be really shy at first. If I've rated you highly and haven't sent you a message it's probably because I'm feeling shy, and not sure what to say.

If you're poly or poly curious. I am are honest, open, and expect the same in return. if there is any kind of initial spark it is important to me that anyone I go out with is just as comfortable meeting Jace as meeting up with me. He is the most important part of my life and I love him to bits.

You're interested in having a conversation about what the word "Queer" means to you. I've come across a lot of profiles that wish that "Queer" was an option on OKCupid, and I agree that it should be. I'm always interested in discussing gender/identity/sexual politics and how it applies to people on a personal level.

You don't mind taking it slow. I am a sex positive person and if/when we get to that stage you will definitely be in for a treat. For me, sex is an expression of our connection with someone, and that can occasionally take time.

You have a bunker already prepared to survive the Zombie Apocalypse.

You have a secret or overt love of Joss Whedon, J.J. Abrams, Steven Moffat, or Gene Roddenberry.

- dary

Lastly a quote I recently came across:
In the forest, there was a crooked tree and a straight tree. Every day, the straight tree would say to the crooked tree, "Look at me...I'm tall, and I'm straight, and I'm handsome. Look at you...you're all crooked and bent over. No one wants to look at you." And they grew up in that forest together. And then one day the loggers came, and they saw the crooked tree and the straight tree, and they said, "Just cut the straight trees and leave the rest." So the loggers turned all the straight trees into lumber and toothpicks and paper. And the crooked tree is still there, growing stronger and stranger every day.”

~ Tom Waits