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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 27-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
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6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Post grad
Might want kids
English, Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a recovering MASShole (translation: I grew up in small town Massachusetts). I've been in NYC for 10 years. I live in the Lower East Side; I love it. Other things I love: house parties, open bars, rooftops,, knit ties, blue suede sneakers, cheesey romantic comedies set in London or NYC, tile mosaics, the words "eclectic" "vertigo" and "wry," the Earth, Wind and Fire song "Dancing in September," the brand-new 6 trains, the Mud truck and cafe.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work in education policy/government, trying to save the world one child at a time...blah blah blah.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Witty banter (email, text, in person. pick your poison.)
Crossing the line
Realizing i crossed the line and quickly apologizing. (sorry!)
Knowing when to mind my manners and impress your mother
Raising one eye-brow and expressing a look that says "SERIOUSLY?!"
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hour 1: Why won't this guy talk?
Hour 2: Why won't this guy shut up?

(Hour 3: "Why is this guy giving me a survey asking me what I just noticed about him?")
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
REM, Garbage, Rolling Stones, U2, Fleetwood Mac, No Doubt, Mumford & Sons, Janet - Miss Jackson If You're Nasty, Rufus Wainwright, Macy Gray, Madonna (as mandated by gay law), JT, lots of classic rock/pop stuff in the juke box.

The Bluest Eye, Common Ground, There Are No Children Here, In Cold Blood, Super Fudge, The Great Gatsby, High Fidelity, Me Talk Pretty One Day, The Alienist, trashy paperback thrillers

trashy reality tv - Bravo shows, Modern Family, Three's Company, Parks & Rec, 30 Rock, Rachel Maddow, Morning Joe

Pitch Perfect! Breakfast Club, shopgirl, The Silence of the Lambs, Mean Girls, Se7en, Goonies, big, Welcome to the Dollhouse and Happiness (just cuz they freak people out), Brokeback Mountain (obvi), Dreamgirls (I get to put down 1 musical, right?)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Let's keep it to people, shall we? Otherwise I look shallow naming off material items. Drum Roll.....

My tailor. (No, really, I have a great tailor.)

My barber. (No really, I have a great barber.)

My oldest friends.

My newest friends.

My family. (Uh, did I instinctively put my tailor and my barber before my friends and family? Well, *maybe* if my mother knew how to fit a good suit jacket...)

My coffee cart guy by work, the one who heckles and mocks his customers, yet gets them coming back for more everyday.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How OKCupid makes a profit.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
telling myself I should stay home and get some rest, and then changing my mind and meeting friends in the EV. (I'll stay home *next* Friday, I swear.)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I just looked at the little summary at the top of this page and thought "Ha ha, it says I'm 40! Well that's a mistake." And then wasn't.
I'm going to spin that anecdote to mean that I'm just "young at heart"...yep, that's my story and I'm sticking to it.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.'re the kind of guy who knows the words to "Baby Got Back" AND to the Gettysburg Address (...or at least knows the gist of each). The kind of guy who gets on board the "Love Train" when it rolls by at a wedding. The kind of guy who can channel surf between Real Housewives and Meet the Press. The kind of guy who helped that lady carry her baby stroller up the train station steps this morning. You know the one. Be That Guy.