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42 Brooklyn, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–44
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Sep 27
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Atheism and laughing about it
Might want kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
there is enough treachery, hatred violence absurdity in the average
human being to supply any given army on any given day

and the best at murder are those who preach against it
and the best at hate are those who preach love
and the best at war finally are those who preach peace

those who preach god, need god
those who preach peace do not have peace
those who preach peace do not have love

beware the preachers
beware the knowers
beware those who are always reading books
beware those who either detest poverty
or are proud of it
beware those quick to praise
for they need praise in return
beware those who are quick to censor
they are afraid of what they do not know
beware those who seek constant crowds for
they are nothing alone
beware the average man the average woman
beware their love, their love is average
seeks average

but there is genius in their hatred
there is enough genius in their hatred to kill you
to kill anybody
not wanting solitude
not understanding solitude
they will attempt to destroy anything
that differs from their own
not being able to create art
they will not understand art
they will consider their failure as creators
only as a failure of the world
not being able to love fully
they will believe your love incomplete
and then they will hate you
and their hatred will be perfect

like a shining diamond
like a knife
like a mountain
like a tiger
like hemlock

their finest art

by Charles Bukowski

All you need to know is: do YOU like the way I look? If you don't- then bye.

If you do... Then know I'm now tired of OKC, Tinder, etc. I'm barely monitoring them out of occasional boredom- and I think everyone is a charlatan... So NEW RULES:

DTF- or you need not apply! Don't start a comversation you can't FINISH!

First comes sex... THEN love... Then dreams of children.

Never been married or had children.

"Their house is over there, and they're always up to something". MilesSuda
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Lighting designer
Master Electrician

Other than that- avoiding fake people.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Everything. But especially sex.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Dostoyevsky, Turgenev, Camus, Celine, Salinger, Henry Miller, Bukowski, Kafka, Garcia Marques, Borges, Lorca, Coelho.
I love Kung Fu movies and all action: Ip Man, Drunken Master, 36th Chamber, Iron Monkey, Once Upon A Time In China, Hero, American Beauty, Forest Gump, Blow, Chaplin, A Bronx Tale, Godfather, I am Legend, Lord Of The Rings, Pulp Fiction, Reservior Dogs, Bruce Allmighty, Incredibly Loud and Unbearably Close, Under The Volcano, Night Of The Iguana, Chinatown, Casablanca (all Bogart), The Third Man, Rear View Window, Vertigo, High Noon, Shawshank Redemption, Iron Man, Batman series, Unbearable Lightness Of Being, The Usual Suspects, Z. So much more I have forgotten to mention... the obvious shit like Terminator, Alien, Predator, ...

Music: Blues, Jazz, Classic Rock to Alt, Hip Hop. Don't like Country much is all.. and never really spend time listening to Classical. Hate electronica. So a little taste..
Blind Willie Johnson, Robert Johnson, John Lee Hooker, Muddy Waters, Howling Wolf, T-Bone Walker, Bobby "Blue" Bland, Ray Charles, Etta James, Aretha Franklin, Tina turner, Stevie Wonder, James Brown, Otis Redding, Sam Cooke, Marvin Gaye, Al Green, Tower Of Power, Beatles, Rolling Stones, Zepplin, Cream, JIMI HENDRIX, Bob Dylan, Black Sabbath, John Coltrane, Miles Davis, Duke Ellington, Charles Mingus, Tribe Called Quest, Black Sheep, De La Soul, Das FX, Mobb Deep, Big Pun, Biggie Smalls, Nas, Jay Z, Eminem, Cage, Brand Nubians, Wu Tang, Busta Rhymes, Nirvana, Alice In Chains, Pearl Jam, Police, Prince, Bob Marley, Peter Tosh, Portishead, Sade, MGMT, Cold War Kids, Decemberists, etc... newer stuff as I go.

Food: I live and grew up in NY... So I love all the variety of food. Nothing gives me comfort like Italian, though. Also, Vietnamese. Especially, Indian! I make killer burgers, though. Never MacDonalds, etc!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Politics and society. What drives people and how we perceive the world around us.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing what ever I feel like
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm an open book- IF... you get past the cover and turn the first page
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are not full of!

You LIKE ME- like me! Don't "like" me on a whim and then waste my time talking to someone who just flakes out...

You deeply appreciate the honor in a man being completely honest and open- you DON'T mistake that for weakness!

You value the experience of a person... Rather than their status, wealth, height, skin color, tattoos, or even, maybe, age difference (although your bracket is completely your right and prerogative)- because you are NOT a superficial bitch! 😮 (OH NO I didn't! Oh.YES. I. did!! 😘🍆👌)

You are excited by, and embrace cultural differences.

You are beautiful and love sex! You value it and are proud of your skills and want to play in the big leagues.

You know that, in the end, WE ARE ALL HERE TO "hook up"- and it's only for the sake of MORONS that you feel the need to even make such a ridiculous statement to the contrary! The moment you "like" someone... That's what you are doing! Hooking Up! Even if the end result is marriage.

You are not full of double standards... while yet calling yourself a liberal and a feminist-
Like: ORDERING me to be "interesting" when I message you... To entertain you... and then you answer with tiny MEANINGLESS sentences, that make me wonder why the hell you "liked" me and wasted my time, attention, or brain space!

It's unlike me to message first- but I will stick my neck out and say hi if you "like" me, and I like you... But if I do- you shouldn't play it cool if you wish to capture my undivided attention!

You are a HOT SLUT- because I was once a player, sex addict, and HOT SLUT... and I would never want to be judged by you!- even if I'm more about eventually finding the prefect ONE these days- and would enjoy being COMPLETELY faithful... I don't believe there is really such a thing as truly "casual" sex in my world- it's too easy for you to fall in love with me if I allow you the honor of sharing my bed. Haha cue laughter! 😉😍😘

You don't have to be a hot slut by the way- you can be anything you want with me! Just be honest and genuine. But you have to enjoy the fact that I'm still kinda hot and slutty!!