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42 Brooklyn, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 1:23pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Poorly)
My self-summary
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Native NYer. Chill. Real. Physically fit. Graduated BFA acting. Musician. Sculptor.

I can write full sentences and know the difference between their, there, and they're. (Their house is over there... And they're always up to something!)

Passionate. Interested. Engaging. Engaged. Loving. Affectionate. Honest.

I don't have tattoos.

I am experienced in many facets of life. I like to talk. I can converse for hours on end. It would be nice to find love again some day... but for now I'd just be happy to feel a connection.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm just trying to be happy and create beauty where and when I can.


I earn my living as a theatre, event, and fashion lighting technician. I climb things, put lights up, make things go pretty... or mostly, lately as a crew chief- I command others to do the climbing. Lately I have been making a transition into TV and film Gaffer/Grip work.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Lots of stuff! I learn fast and am a perfectionist. I can stand on my hands for longer than 30 seconds... Without the wall.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well... A lot of people say I seem intense. Probably my eyes. Maybe my hands?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Dostoyevsky, Turgenev, Camus, Celine, Salinger, Henry Miller, Bukowski, Kafka, Garcia Marques, Borges, Lorca, Coelho.
I love Kung Fu movies and all action: Ip Man, Drunken Master, 36th Chamber, Iron Monkey, Once Upon A Time In China, Hero, American Beauty, Forest Gump, Blow, Chaplin, A Bronx Tale, Godfather, I am Legend, Lord Of The Rings, Pulp Fiction, Reservior Dogs, Bruce Allmighty, Incredibly Loud and Unbearably Close, Under The Volcano, Night Of The Iguana, Chinatown, Casablanca (all Bogart), The Third Man, Rear View Window, Vertigo, High Noon, Shawshank Redemption, Iron Man, Batman series, Unbearable Lightness Of Being, The Usual Suspects, Z. So much more I have forgotten to mention... the obvious shit like Terminator, Alien, Predator, ...

Music: Blues, Jazz, Classic Rock to Alt, Hip Hop. Don't like Country much is all.. and never really spend time listening to Classical. Hate electronica. So a little taste..
Blind Willie Johnson, Robert Johnson, John Lee Hooker, Muddy Waters, Howling Wolf, T-Bone Walker, Bobby "Blue" Bland, Ray Charles, Etta James, Aretha Franklin, Tina turner, Stevie Wonder, James Brown, Otis Redding, Sam Cooke, Marvin Gaye, Al Green, Tower Of Power, Beatles, Rolling Stones, Zepplin, Cream, JIMI HENDRIX, Bob Dylan, Black Sabbath, John Coltrane, Miles Davis, Duke Ellington, Charles Mingus, Tribe Called Quest, Black Sheep, De La Soul, Das FX, Mobb Deep, Big Pun, Biggie Smalls, Nas, Jay Z, Eminem, Cage, Brand Nubians, Wu Tang, Busta Rhymes, Nirvana, Alice In Chains, Pearl Jam, Police, Prince, Bob Marley, Peter Tosh, Portishead, Sade, MGMT, Cold War Kids, Decemberists, etc... newer stuff as I go.

Food: I live and grew up in NY... So I love all the variety of food. Nothing gives me comfort like Italian, though. Also, Vietnamese. Especially, Indian! I make killer burgers, though. Never MacDonalds, etc!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Politics and society. What drives people and how we perceive the world around us.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing what ever I feel like
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm an open book- IF... you get past the cover and turn the first page
You should message me if
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you want to.
You have something to offer.
You think that I have something you would enjoy.
It's unlike me to message first... I don't like the way all the ladies complain about having full mail boxes and maybe getting around to answering sometime.
Women's perogative.