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41 Cary, IL Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:08pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I am so done with playing games. If you are interested, show it. And those "Like" things do not count. I am not an A-list member, can't see you when you do it, and will not respond. Just drop me a line and say Hi. Well please have something more to say than Hi. But you get me. :) If I show interest in you but you are not, just say so. Its ok.

I think logging onto a dating site with the up front notion of finding a deep relationship and possibly marriage is putting the cart before the horse. Dating sites don't make relationships, spending time with someone and getting to know that person does. I am so much better to know in person than anything you could get from just a paragraph and a picture, so let's try and strike up a friendship and let things happen from there. I want the long term, but we aren't going to get there without going through the short term first. :)
What I’m doing with my life
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Making great stuff that apparently people are really interested to buy. Growing that business. Discovering things about my family history and being active in the Jewish Genealogy Society of Illinois. Playing basketball. Being handy around the house. Always questioning and growing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
A choice number of things but I can get by at just about anything. I am trying to be better at golf, but yeah, that is still a work in progress.
The first things people usually notice about me
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You'll see it when we first meet. Let me know what it was.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Sci fi, history, WWII documentaries, science programs, crime dramas, The Walking Dead, hair bands, capers, hockey, Pawn Stars, Lord of the Rings, Who Do You Think You Are, Treehouse Masters, kefta kabob.

I like seeing a lot of movies in the theater. I would always rather see a movie when it is new in the theater than wait to see it later at home.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My dog
2. Snow
3. Pasta
4. Movies on the big screen
5. My family and friends
6. The chance to learn something new
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Genealogy, burgers, wargaming. What I am going to take with me in the ten minutes I'll have to evacuate my house when the zombie apocalypse happens.

Why so many women seem to respond to so few messages. Are you really that certain from just a picture and a paragraph that someone isn't the one for you?

When did the number of stamps you have on your passport become a status symbol? Someone please explain this to me, I really want to know.

What it is that makes a woman attractive. I've discovered over the years that hair is very important in what I find physically attractive in a woman. The ability to laugh at one's self is very important in what I find attractive in a woman's personality.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, gaming, seeing a movie, going out to eat. It really depends on which typical you want.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My middle name is Mark, and my grandpa was the only one who would use it, but it was out of endearment. Somehow my middle name never seemed to slipped in when I was in trouble.
You should message me if
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This used to say you should message me if you like Blackhawks playoff beards, but now it is gone and I am sad. :(

I am not big on messaging back and forth here forever. I would much rather meet in person, so if we get through a couple of messages I am going to ask you out. Fair warning. :)

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