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45 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 29–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:01pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them

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My self-summary
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Hello OKC profile perusers! So there are more open minded people out there that are trying to improve their odds of coming across a great partner, nice ;-)

I know not everyone is for everyone, but I'm your basic total package here (just ask me)! My friends would say that for better or worse you can always depend on what I say as being the truth, and when I commit to something I am quite loyal...I just passed my 11 year anniversary at my job!

Some random notes about me;

* Smart enough to know I have lots to learn
* Well employed in a job I used to love more before we went public!
* Like to be out and about either golfing, wine tasting, hanging out by the water or with my friends and their kids
* Sense of humor I utilize with random abandon, it's my default factory setting
* Outgoing, extroverted, friendly, positive
* Good attitude...or maybe just have really good self defense mechanisms!
* No one thinks I'm actually 45 (just turned in October), probably a combination of my youthful look and fun loving demeanor
* Have lived on both coasts and the Midwest, well rounded
* Things that aren't always in my favor with women: My love of horror movies, my facial hair, my NFL Sundays
* Things that seem to be in my favor: Kids and animals like me, I can cook, I travel somewhere international at least once per year, my salt and pepper facial hair looks distinguished ;-)

A much shorter list of things that I have found do not work for me;
* Negativity or excessive drama
* Hard core conservative or religious views
* Materialistic or shallow people

I can certainly guarantee fun, easy conversation, and hopefully there would even be that elusive connection. If you are someone who identifies with and embodies the traits above, I would love to hear from you...
What I’m doing with my life
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Selling products I believe in that will make for healthier families and environment. When not working I am out exploring the Bay Area, maybe hiking/biking or playing golf, or traveling outside of the country (I go somewhere at least once per year)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, communicating (I have the gift of gab), making people laugh, cooking, enjoying myself, board/trivia games, some other stuff I shoudn't mention here ;-)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Awesome hair!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Yay: Rock n roil, comedies, horror movies, sushi, fruits/veggies, Archer, Daily Show/Colbert, etc

Nay: Reality shows, top 40 music, bitter flavors or attitudes
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Iphone, charger, passport, wallet, toothbrush...and I'm going to leave a space open in case I come across something else that is crucial
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
All things from relevant to trivial
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out and about, love to try new places
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'll admit plenty to the people in my life I care about and trust, but I don't know you...let's rectify that
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Not sure why you wouldn't, but if you do, please have your act together, you smile easily, you are open minded, have a good sense of humor, are not a drama queen, and generally like to have fun.