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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 36-56
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 1:57pm
Indian, White, Other
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
A little extra
Judaism but it’s not important
Has kid(s)
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a highly intelligent, passionate, and unabashedly progressive man, devoted to my two daughters, recently turned seven and ten, and ready to be in a committed relationship again. My life is rich and good, and would be even richer and better if I were in a relationship with an equally complex and accomplished woman.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've spent most of my adult life leading public policy and political work for trade unions, with a focus on health care, and have recently started a consulting practice, which has allowed me to broaden my reach, live a healthier life, and be a better parent while continuing my devotion to social and economic justice.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening carefully, feeling deeply, loving fully, keeping commitments, creating community, generating ideas, and making connections.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm smart and funny and engaged with what they have to say.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My interests are too many and too varied to capture here, but in short: my reading ranges from philosophy and political theory to political economy and history, with some poetry and experimental fiction thrown in; my musical tastes are diverse, with a special depth of interest and knowledge in jazz, folk, and bluegrass; I enjoy a wide range of movies and theater, with a preference for classics, the edgy, and the offbeat; and well made food and wine of all cultures are passions of mine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My daughters' smiling faces, open hearts, and nimble minds
A community of colleagues and friends committed to social justice
Vigorous intellectual stimulation
Emotional and physical intimacy
Excellent food and wine
Swimming in warm ocean waters.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be a better parent, how to be more effective in my work for social change, what I should read and listen to and view next, where I should go on my next vacation, how much I want to be in love again and to be loved in return.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Since my daughters are with their mother on Friday nights, I can usually be found either having a quick after work drink with colleagues, then moving on to a delicious meal and an interesting film, or luxuriating in a long workout followed by some quiet time to read and reflect.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Hmmm...I'll have to think about that!
You should message me if
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You have a sharp mind, a strong will, and a kind heart, and want to meet your equal and share a rich, challenging, and joyous life.