I am geeky, dizzy, and affectionate.
My Self-Summary
Never know what to put here! Oh well, let's try.
I'm a little 25 year old geek, who moved to the Manchester area in
Jan '05. Before that I've lived in Holland, London, Cambridge,
Nottinghamshire, Sheffield and a few other places, but I've
recently bought a house in Rochdale so I think I might have to stay
now!
I'm tactile and affectionate; friends get hugged, nuzzled, the
close ones (gently!) bitten, and I choose most of my clothes on
with the feel of the material as a major factor. Happiness is my
giant furry beanbag.
I'm a big
World of Warcraft geek and
though I tried to break free it kinda didn't work. When I'm not
doing that I'm either playing
text-based RP games,
reading or
drawing when at by
myself, playing
Settlers of Catan and other
interesting boardgames, making nice dinners or watching
movies/
live music when doing the
company thing. I'm also getting quite into
rambling now I live in such a dang
pretty bit of Lancashire. I just wish it rained less so I could do
more of it!
What I’m doing with my life
I say this with shame in my voice: I work in insurance. Christ, I'm
25 and I work in insurance, but oh well! It pays the bills of my
new house and has some nice prospects. Just not the most thrilling
starter to conversations at parties. Wow, nice car mate! Bet it's
at least a group 13 though, cost you a fortune...
On a social side, I'm working my ass off with overtime paying for
the nice 2-bed semi I bought by myself on a rather average job,
which I share with hamster and (as of very recently) my
friend-lodger and my Egyptian Mau kitten. Never know, I might have
some free time again!
I’m really good at
Talking to anyone (such as strangers at bus stops), about almost
anything (like the way rain waits until you're stuck miles away
from any shelter to suddenly jump on you).
Making really good friends with people in short spaces of time then
being utterly wank at keeping in contact.
The first things people usually notice about me
See, this is a dangerous question. Whatever I put here, will be
what you're expecting to notice first, so what you will
notice first. So how's about I don't say, and if I meet you, you
tell me what you noticed first, and I'll compile a secret
list?
Yeah. let's do that.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Books: Most things by Neil Gaiman. Robin Hobb's Farseer series.
Lord of the Rings. I am predicably fantasy nerdish.
Movies: Shaun of the Dead, Lord of the rings (again, oops), Batman
Dark Knight, Slumdog Millionaire. Most things that aren't horror,
completely mindless action movies, or cringe-humor (American Pie,
Borat, etc).
Music: Madly ecclectic. A few; Indigo Girls, Martin Harley, Thea
Gilmore, Vast, Flying Pickets, Dashboard Confessional. Tim Minchin
if you count his stuff under music rather than comedy (or probably
more accurately both).
Food: Most things. I have a particular softness for Hungarian BBQ
and Teppanyaki and a good curry, but there is very little food I
don't enjoy and new things award bonus points.
The six things I could never do without
1) At least one of my computers (sleak Mac PowerBook, and a hefty
Frankinstein windows box)
2) World of Warcraft (I did warn you at the top I was a touch
geeky)
3) Family and a select few extremely valuable friends
4)
Jaffa
cakes
5) My
bed. All cotton
bedding, hardwood frame, dunlopillows, goose down duvet; it's not
just a bed, it's a little slice of heaven.
6) Drawing materials (either real media or my
wacom tablet)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Quantum physics. No. Really. I once woke myself up at 3am with the
sudden realisation I'd disproved the existance of God by using the
electron double
slit experiment. It didn't hold up on close scrutiny, but the
idea was cool...
On a typical Friday night I am
You know, I’m really not sure anymore My answer would have been
‘raiding’ back when I was still raiding heavily on World of
Warcraft, but now that’s so heavily scaled back… probably chilling
with
nice food
and
conversation with friends, or at
the
Sheffield Ceilidh.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I keep my toenails really really short, right down to the
quick. Don't know why, I just don't like toenails!
On a related subject, I don't get people who put "you'll have to
ask me" or "not telling" here. By definition, unless your profile
is blank, something is the most private thing you are
prepared to admit. Even if it's your height, or your name, or that
American History X is your favourite movie, or you hate the texture
of clams.
Just a thought. Continue!
You should message me if
You've living in the Manchester or Rochdale area and think I sound
like someone you'd get on with. Despite having lived here a fair
while now, my social circle used to be quite insular, and I’m
really interested in finding new and interesting people to swap
ideas, stories, and
late night
philosophical bullshit with.
That said, a proviso against certain flavours of 'WTF?' I have so
far met on OKC. At the top of my profile you will see it says I am
tactile and affectionate and a person that hugs, nuzzles and
occasionally nibbles her friends. Knowing this, people who will
bleat on about 'invasions of their personal space' off the back of
a single 2-second hug around the shoulders need not apply. To the
right of my profile you will see it says I am an athiest. While I
do not have a problem with people who have religious beliefs, if
you are going to decide 4 months down the line you 'cannot be with
a woman you can't pray with', please do not waste my time. And if
you stand me up for our first meeting on the day three times in a
row, please expect me to laugh in your face when you ask to
reschedule.
It really does take all sorts to make a world :)
Be warned however - my earier mention of being wank at staying in
contact? Yeah. Totally. I often forget to answer emails or OKC
messages or letters or answerphone messages for weeks and months.
Please do not take it personally, I am this disorganised,
distracted and plain old fashion rude with everyone equally.