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60 M Cincinnati, OH

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Last Online
Feb 26, 2013
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
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Mostly vegetarian
Graduated from university
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Relationship Type
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Well, sorry for the grainy pictures but it's the best i got.
At least it's a full body shot and a close up portrait - got noth'en to hide. ... well, pretty much so - we can all be a bit embarrassed about someth'en. :-)

"Miracle" - by God, The Creator, giving The Purpose to the creation. It's the growth, the development, the revelation, the experience, the ability to look back in one's life and 'see' the true, vital, Godly ordained purpose changing/transforming one's heart/mind/beliefs/understanding/sight into that which is consistent with that same, destined, purpose for which creation is. Being given a heart/mind/belief that sees and embraces this process of transformation, being matured by what God's love is, - that! - this! is miraculous, God's reigning miracle of creation with purpose being lived out in one's one a true, purposeful, and well lit, directed life.

a fine balance between unique, adventurous, spontaneous, fun and a serious, driving, God-given intention, providing a supreme confidence in the ability to
'make you laugh'

Yes, the subjects of that 'fine balance' being compared were meant to set the stage for a surprise ending to the paragraph.
And, i know, that did not 'make you laugh'. A good, hearty, belly aching, laugh always requires the 'perfect funny storm'
of potentially humoring conditions.

:-) - well, you may be entertained reading, so far.

You like to laugh - Do something with someone whose lives with an ever-present intention to discover that touch sensitive laugh button.

It's a solid foundation, a foundation in which one can be truly thankful continuously, in all things, that's always giving a view of the lighter side of things. Where can humor be without a light on the view?

There is an epidemic of double-mindedness in the US today which brings dis-ease to the funny bone. Not too many people laughing out there; let alone smiling with a big, genuine, smile.

Certainly, a way to describe a contributing factor to the spread of this tenable tabloid-itis with it's desperate, failing, attempts to make the bizarre and weird funny is a misguided view of what's important to life and living. What would our world be like if more people focused on the ideas of wealth and power as follows?

The wealthiest person in the world is one who envies no one,
the most powerful; one who resents no one.

The entire back yard is a perennial water garden. More than a hobby - it's a job to enjoy - like living in your ever-growing/changing/living artwork. 90% of time at home is enjoyed in an 'all season' room with two walls being glass from floor to ceiling; overlooking the pond, waterfalls, re-circulating creek surrounded by timely flowering, aromatic, plants. Well, enough of that, it's tending time is coming soon.

Gourmet and healthy cooking.

We love the hell out of people
not the hell in them.
Not to judge, just discern
living, speaking, example
by which we share & learn
benefits giving, fully ample

what love is there among thieves and robbers
who love thieves and robbers?

The following quote comes at the end of a S. Korean woman's documentary of an old man who lived with/for peace in
his mind as he ventured out daily to walk the subway station,
carrying a sign, that encouraged peace and unification of Korea. Walking barefoot, even through the winter, claiming he would not indulge himself until they unified. Hope this doesn't reduce the value in the quotes below.

The wealthiest person in the world is one
who envies no one,
the most powerful person in the world is one
who resents no one.


Considered wise in human relationships, family and intimacy, we learn and change most through the pain, difficulties and challenges of life (rather than with a margarita on the beach).
However, in addition, a life in the most stable and supportive conditions, with parents who were both well educated/professional, Lawyer/Director of Legal Aid and CPA for a Catholic Nun's organization, never argued in front of the kids, paid for local, private, catholic schooling, adopted 4 children, were both home by 5 EVERY Night for dinner, never spoke foul, degrading, language, were active in civil rights efforts, and celebrated their 55th wedding anniversary before she died.

What do you think a person's home life has to do with who they are today? Surely, significant, it is.
Is it not here, where we first learn to believe what we do, think, therefore, as we do?
What determines our response to people, situations and relationships other than the beliefs that make us who we are?

Truth & Dare: Whose guess is best?
What's the most convenient place between us
that's an easy and safe place? Do some talk'en
and meet'en to see if we'd ask the other
about a dat'en?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
What would a man who writes as he did above be doing with his life?

I enjoy doing anything, being spontaneous, adventurous, brave and lovingly, relatively, fearless - bring it on!

Enjoying it and growing in it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening. What relationship works short of listening a lot, being focused, understanding comes from listening. What relationship, what friendship, works without a lot of listening?

Table Tennis.

Enjoying the water.


Being open.

Being relaxed and entertaining.


Having lived a lot, enjoying listening and telling stories.

Lessons of love learned. Do understand: the value of this 'word' 'love' being used here, being shared here. It's a love word meant to equate with truth, as in, this, 'love gives truth', the truth of life, the truth of relationships, the truth of purpose in our life as it sheds light on every lil detail of life. As it is here,
there is no truth without love and no love without the truth it gives which makes it the love it is.

Was that too much, here? Now, already? Well, there are those who would appreciate this lil writ'en. It may be few.
This lil writ'en can do the work for us; discerning between those who have a lovingly fun time and those who might not.
Easy. :-)

Meeting and entertaining, being entertaining is being entertained, easily. :-)

Riding a fully dressed motorcycle, slowly, safely, over hills and through the woods, for groceries, even, with side-bags completely packed - making grocery shopping like a short vacation. Easy, simple, fun.

Admittedly, understandably, not everyone's ready to hop on the back of someone's bike. I wouldn't. That kind of confidence and comfort comes from months of observation and seeing that a life-long riding experience could make it as safe as a car.

There's always the high rating of safety the lexus carries.

The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Love of life, love in life, confident in the truth it gives, confidence that shows in communication, kindness, peace, patience, understanding, respect, anticipating a simple, worthy, need of another and acting upon it. This is what a true and loving confidence would show.

Gee, he's in good shape for his age!

and he smiles a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Shakespeare in Love, The Notebook, The Pianist, The Piano, Bridges over Madison County, Everything is Illuminated, The Search for Bobby Fisher, all 'live' concerts indoors and out.

Good food, healthy food, making good food. :-)

The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Growing up in the love that reveals so much truth about life, living, relationships and .................






-7) - maybe your friendship?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
This is quote from physicist David Bohm, he worked with Einstien - they were friends for years. He did a lot writing on the process of human 'thought'.

Thought is constantly creating problems that way and then trying to solve them. But as it tries to solve them it makes it worse because it doesn't notice that it's creating them, and the more it thinks, the more problems it creates.

We can see how this is a draw back of 'thought' - people thinking.

The question, better posed, is - What do you believe. Where have we gotten our beliefs. To whom do we give credit for giving and directing the beliefs we have. What we believe determines what we can think, do think and whether or not we are able to think through beliefs that are of God's truth, a truth given us in - you know what! by now~~! Love, yes, love.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Enjoying life.

Reading, writing but not arithmetic. -- even while out at a coffee shop. ... on line researching activities to do, enjoy, explore, off line.

Conversation with a friend.

Movie, theater, concert or walking/riding the bike.

Live concerts.

always enjoy home - it so full of stuff to do.. and so comfortable too. :-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i really do like discussing what 'true love' is and all that masquerades as love - heck, it can be fun to identify those things that are hidden! :-) smile - be a smil'er
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
if you like, if you want, if you want to do something fun and easy - and

:-) and like to smile