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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40-70
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 12:34pm
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Atheism but it’s not important
Post grad
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Left-wing semi-intellectual, I like bicycling, walking in Prospect Park, just lying on my back and watching the clouds drift by. I exercise enough to keep my weight reasonable, not as much as I'd like to or should. I like staying home and cooking big meals for my friends (fancy dishes are cream of asparagus soup with salmon and dill, served before duck stuffed with orange and mango, but most of the time I cook meals that taste like nourishment, from recipes taught me by my mom), movies, music, blues and jazz. Raised two beautiful (see photo) kids, now grown, on their own, and doing fabulously. When, in high school, they started using my place as a crash pad I realized I had to be something more than their father and picked up a guitar I had set down about thirty years before. Haven’t set an instrument down since. Many friends are musicians. I have a regular free jam with a few of them every Friday. Another regular jam at my place Sundays, temporarily suspended until I renovate my coop. Band rehearsal Wednesday. Picked up a double bass about a year ago, no longer a beginner, but already able to keep up with some serious amateur and semi-pro players.

I’m not a lightweight. I work steadily, live a healthy lifestyle, I read serious literature, mostly non-fiction. I’m always there for my kids and for friends who need me.

I'm looking for a mature woman, someone who's lived, loved, lost. Someone stronger than the pain of disappointment and courageous enough to dare to love in spite of it all. Baggage is OK - it's another word for experience. I'm looking for someone intelligent, accomplished, mentally and physically active. Be open to growth, to new experience, to the unexpected. Looking for long-term and meaningful, not looking for a fling. I'd like best to date someone local, but it doesn't have to be a Brooklynite. I have a local circle of friends, love it, and want to add to it.

I'm a basic teeshirtandjeans guy. Clean up somewhat (tweed short jacket) but there's no spit 'n polish to me.

Sorry so few photos - I don't photograph well and I don't like sitting for or taking photographs. The first one of me is about a year old. The one of the children is about ten years old.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Retired a few years back and have that transition under my belt. I take a few cases on court appointment about the eviction of disabled people.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Damned if I know. Never as good as I want to be.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Who knows? You'll tell me when you see me, only if you want to. It's not the sort of thing I go bugging people about.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Love movies. Hate Broadway. I'd like to see some serious plays offoff. The first author I loved was Sean O'Casey. Play much Stones, Dead, Dylan, spooky electric versions of folk songs in minor keys. Sometimes we just take off and don't know what it was. Listen to jazz, rock, old pop, world music, classical - the usual.

Enthusiasms are infectious. If yours are different, we can try them.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My children
My bicycle - I'm a regular bike commuter, all year round
One steady, one close, one intimate friend
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.

My cases.

Whether the Republicans will give up before they die off.

Why the US doesn't produce steel anymore.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Jammin with the buds. It's the closest thing I have to going to church. I'm religious about it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm 420 friendly.
You should message me if
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You know this answer better than I do. Bring what you have. Surprise me. I welcome all.