That doesn't mean looking for casual.
Genuine and generous
Quietly competent...soft-spoken yet opinionated
Guidelines I endeavor to keep close to mind:
Be kind, careful, honest, and yourself.
Think before you act. (be mindful of all you can)
Love your neighbor. (negativity is poisonous)
If you are miserable, look in the mirror to find out why. You can find the answer there.
Everyone else is having a hard time too, so be kind.
Everyone else has been hurt too, so be kind.
Did I mention think? And pay attention?
**Various types of polyamory are well described in this FAQ. I thoroughly recommend it as a starting place if you're wondering what that even means. There is quite a spectrum of polyamory. To explain my take on ethical non-monogamy here would be more than I'm willing to write right now...