Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Genuine and generous
Quietly competent...soft-spoken yet opinionated
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Creating my own meaning out of it all while maintaining my
My degree is in fine arts, but I work in IT. My heart lies
A few years ago I would have never dreamed about the life I lead
now. So many positive changes... Among those meeting SoftSandalwood
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being creative and analytical. I'm a bit of a nerd. Or is that
geek? OK, both.
I can brew a mean beer and make amazing mead.
I like making and fixing things. Am good with my hands.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My dashing good looks, devastating wit. Possibly my dry sense of
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
From food, to fine arts, to music, if it's talented and
well-executed, I will appreciate it. If it's talented,
well-executed *and* has something interesting/quirky that makes it
stand out, I will like it.
I don't read as much as I would like to or should. There are not
enough hours in the day for all the things I want. I want it
Movies - I like when they make me think.
Music... All over the place.
Food - I have found something I like in any and all cuisines I've
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The wonderful and amazing people I have in my life!
An inquisitive mind - mine and yours!
Great beer and interesting cheese. Beer pairs with cheese better
than wine ever could. Disagree?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Nuanced explanations to OKC questions.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At Jake's (though I hate the cigar smoke when it's heavy) at 5pm or
shortly thereafter beer-geeking out. I'm a semi-pro beer geek and
certified beer judge. Yes, really.
Or just chilling at home. Maybe a fire outside and enjoying the
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am entirely weary of everything "Husker", and I don't follow
My favorite Muppet is Dr. Teeth. He's mellow and full of zen-like
wisdom. But I've also got a bit of Kermit in me, just not the
extroverted parts. I'm also part Rolf.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
The artist Alex Grey once said that “True love is when two people’s
pathologies complement one another’s.” The best love works when our
irrationalities complement one another and our flaws enamor one
another. It may be our perfections that attract one another. But
it’s our imperfections that decide whether we stay together or
I am Polyamorous. That doesn't mean looking for casual. Not looking
for casual doesn't mean that if I clicked with someone, we
*couldn't* have a relatively casual, fwb type relationship if
that's what we both wanted.
If you're not needing to find someone to be with all the time, and
looking for someone to hang out with once in a while...
...If you've found something that clicks or interests you, please
consider it =)
Or if you just like wool socks.
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