Currently in an awesome relationship with SoftSandalwood. We are polyamorous. While I'm not actively messaging/searching for another girlfriend for myself, I'm open to the idea. And we're always open to the possibilities of meeting a new lady friend to see if there's mutual interest together. I'm not currently initiating contacts, as they so often go unanswered. It's frustrating, as I don't message unless I mean it. So feel free to take the first step =)
We would like to find another female friend for going out/staying in, and possibly more. There has to be some friendship/chemistry/trust...we aren't looking for "just sex". We have an awesome sex life together, so we aren't missing anything. Just wanting to occasionally share it with another woman. We aren't trophy hunting, or anything like that. Looking for meaningful friendships. If that meaningful friendship also happens to include enough mutual interest and attraction for more, great! If not, the meaningful friendship is still there, and having friends is a great thing.
Here's the copy/paste for her profile as I note the profile link doesn't work on the okc app:
I'm a father before anything else...I have a 10 year old daughter that lives with me half the time. There are no words for how awesome she is. Not having any more kids, though. -snip snip-
"True Love" I believe to be a myth, a fairy tale, fiction. I do believe in love, and I believe that people can make it work for a lifetime. Loving...Relating like that requires tending and maintenance by all parties. They have to want it, and it's not always easy.
You will always know where you stand with me. I'm direct, I don't play games, and I expect the same in return. (I'm not crazy)
Things I am:
Laid back, not high strung
Interested and engaged
Quietly competent, fairly soft-spoken
Mature, reliable, honest, and loyal. Apparently to a fault. Yes, there's a story there. Will tell you all about it if you ask.
I'm a "nice guy". Will I finish last? I don't know, but I'll be
myself no matter what. Hmmm... "finishing last" can be a great thing in the proper context... ;-)
Going out, staying in, there are great and fun things to be done no matter where you are.
I'm a night person. I like to sleep in a bit on the weekend.
I'm not my job, nor how much money is in my bank account.
I'm in wonder of the night sky. I love thunder.
I'm not the car I drive, nor the clothes I wear.
I'm searching, discovering and creating.
I'm GGG. Google it if you don't know.