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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30-55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:44am
Open relationship
Relationship Type
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I am:
Genuine and generous
Quietly competent...soft-spoken yet opinionated



Night owl
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Creating my own meaning out of it all while maintaining my center.

My degree is in fine arts, but I work in IT. My heart lies elsewhere.

A few years ago I would have never dreamed about the life I lead now. So many positive changes.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being creative and analytical. I'm a bit of a nerd. Or is that geek? OK, both.

I can brew a mean beer and make amazing mead.

I like making and fixing things. Am good with my hands.

I'm told I am good at swinging a flogger. So if that's something that interests you...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My dashing good looks, devastating wit. Possibly my dry sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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From food, to fine arts, to music, if it's talented and well-executed, I will appreciate it. If it's talented, well-executed *and* has something interesting/quirky that makes it stand out, I will like it.

I don't read as much as I would like to or should. There are not enough hours in the day for all the things I want. I want it all!

Movies - I like when they make me think.

Music... All over the place.

Food - I have found something I like in any and all cuisines I've ever tried.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The wonderful and amazing people I have in my life!
Creative outlets
An inquisitive mind - mine and yours!
Wool socks
Great beer and interesting cheese. Beer pairs with cheese better than wine ever could. Disagree?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Nuanced explanations to OKC questions.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At Jake's (though I hate the cigar smoke when it's heavy) at 5pm or shortly thereafter beer-geeking out. I'm a semi-pro beer geek and certified beer judge. Yes, really.

Or just chilling at home. Maybe a fire outside and enjoying the night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am entirely weary of everything "Husker", and I don't follow sports.

My favorite Muppet is Dr. Teeth. He's mellow and full of zen-like wisdom. But I've also got a bit of Kermit in me, just not the extroverted parts. I'm also part Rolf.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
The artist Alex Grey once said that “True love is when two people’s pathologies complement one another’s.” The best love works when our irrationalities complement one another and our flaws enamor one another. It may be our perfections that attract one another. But it’s our imperfections that decide whether we stay together or not.

I am Polyamorous. That doesn't mean looking for casual. Not looking for casual doesn't mean that if I clicked with someone, we *couldn't* have a relatively casual, fwb type relationship if that's what we both wanted. Basically, I am open to the possibilities that each individual brings to a relationship.

If you're not needing to find someone to be with all the time, and looking for someone to hang out with once in a while...

...If you've found something that clicks or interests you, please consider it =)

Or if you just like wool socks.