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Misaul

46 New York, NY Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 23
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Avid traveller (serious wanderlust), active (tennis, yoga, run, surf & paddleboard), animal-lover, lover of anything outdoors, enjoy films/theatre/live music, time spent with family & friends is priceless, healthy lifestyle but definitely enjoy good food/cocktails/wine.

have reached a certain level of success in my career to enjoy it while always looking for new challenges and to keep my professional life stimulating. also have the freedom & appreciation of work/life balance to pursue interests outside work.
What I’m doing with my life
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enjoying it & the people & things i experience on a daily basis, even when it means just spending a few moments a day expressing some level of gratitude for life
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
first thing? who knows -- a man on the london tube once told me i had beautiful teeth. a female sculptor in the locker room of my gym said i had really attractive feet. i've been described as scrawny and strong in the same sentence. and people seem to like my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - Recent: Super Sad True Love Story, Just Kids, Let the Great World Spin, Country Under My Skin (autobiography of a Nicaraguan female Sandinista), Story of a Marriage, The Girl who Fell from the Sky; struggling to get through Infinite Jest by David Foster Wallace. Long-time Favorites: Of Human Bondage, American Tragedy, Adventures of Kavalier & Clay, & so many more

Movies: As long as there's popcorn, almost anything - well, maybe not too many romcoms (though i have indulged in private every now & now).

Music: R&B (anthony hamilton-amazing!); soul/hip-hop duets (mariah-orb, mariah- busta rhymes, method man-mary j. blige); pop/classic rock; esperanza spalding (genius); emeli sande; rediscovering pearl jam/eddie vedder, red hot chili peppers, led zeppelin.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Besides friends & family:
Ice Cream
Fruit
Nature
Furry pets
Yoga
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
where i am traveling to next (on the list, Morocco, Africa, Vietnam, Thailand -- and always just about to leave from/return to Central America)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Happy it's finally here, and enjoying a summer night, doing whatever...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i have not obeyed all ten commandments
You should message me if
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you are positive, active, curious, ready/willing to laugh easily, & have no qualms about cocktails at brunch, playing hooky, discussing politics, or spontaneous trips to the movies/theatre/museums/the world beyond nyc