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33 Kreuzberg, Germany Genderqueer, Gender Nonconforming, Genderfluid, Woman, Non-binary

Genderqueer, Gender Nonconforming, Genderfluid, Woman, Non-binary

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  • Ages 25-40
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Last online
Yesterday – 10:26am
Bisexual, Queer, Sapiosexual, Pansexual
Hispanic / Latin, White
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Full figured
Special Diet
Atheism and it’s important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"All affirmations are true in some sense, false in some sense, meaningless in some sense, true and false in some sense, true and meaningless in some sense, false and meaningless in some sense, and true and false and meaningless in some sense."

"The human race will begin solving it's problems on the day that it ceases taking itself so seriously"

The Golden Secret, Principia Discordia, 00074

Disclaimer: everything that is stated here is a momentary construction of my person and personality and has no claim of being whole. And it is work in progress even though I do not constantly work in it.
DISCLAIMER 2: I have a bussylife. I don't want to spend it mostly infront of the computer and I already do so much at work. Therefore I am not looking for chat partners or pen pals. As someone here already said: it's not the 90's anymore.

So I will probably not answer if you live very far away and chances are slim we can manage to meet face to face without mayor complications. I won't answer to "Hi there, how are you" or similar messages.

Disclaimer 3: I do NOT like beards. Although I will admit, that some guys look good, even sexy with beards, I cannot stand the feeling of kissing a bearded face. At least no full beards or mustaches. I guess I am more attracted to Androginity and not really going for the hole super masculine thing.

I consider myself an outgoing and laidback person with a bit of a sarcastic sense of humor. Gelassenheit has become my Life-Motto (although I must admit I have kinda failed to live by it lately). The years have given me my quirks. There is a hippie somewhere underneath, a punk, a geek of some sorts, a goth, a metalchik, dead sirious sometimes, playfull some others. Quite a feline.

I do enjoy being intellectually challenged, so the best way to score points is to engage in passionate discussions. I studied religionswissenschaft, philosophy and political science focusing on critical and postcolonial theory. This pretty much screwed me up in so many ways, that my world perception is probably only compatible with people that have commited to at least reading about post-structuralism. It is like taking the red pill.

I consider myself a person with lots of empathy; when past the point of critical analysis I can be very engaging.

I haven't lost all of my idealism, even though I worked in politics the last couple of years. A patina of cynisims paired with some sarcasm and selfirony has come to show though. This ususally keeps one sane. Lately looking out for the Fnords has been helping.

One issue I am very passionate about since sometime now is secularism. The other political topics are civil rights for LGBTTIQ persons , the overcoming of gender-binarity and legalization and regulation of drugs. I am fighting for liberal, evidence based drug policies, that follow the principle of harm reduction.

I identify as bisexual, sapiosexual and genderqueer/fluid. I like to play with genderroles. A friend of mine once said, as I put on my corsett and High heels, "what a drag-show!". That doesn´t really describe it in total, but it puts a pin on it. I dislike the binarity of gender in the heteronormative discourse and have since pre-puberty challenged gender-conformity. Since I was brought up in a very conservative an patriarchal envirorment in Mexico, this was much to the distress of my family.

In respect to love: love is awesome. I like to love but I also love to play. I am looking for non- monogamous relationships. I want to encounter people with an open mind and without preconfigured ideas where something is heading. Borders between relationship types are fluid for me. I am getting comfortable with the concept of relationship anarchy.
If you are looking for someone to be yours or to marry: skip ahead.

This doesn't mean I cannot commit or give myself into something. Yes. I can.

I like complicated and challenging and weird.

I am more interested in expanding my experiences with persons with female sex or gender identity and genderqueer/fluid persons right now.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Edit: changing it. Starting over. Moving to Berlin. Becoming a Hemp Lobbyist.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
From the feedback I had: at giving massages
The first things people usually notice about me
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I am quite cinephil alltough not really too artsy and I have a wast DVD collection. I insist on watching movies and TV shows in original language. I have found myself favoring good TV shows over movies lately. I still cannot explain this.

Movies: Tarantino, Coppola (both), Tim Burton, Scorcesse and Lars von Trier are my favorite directors.

Some of my fav movies in random order:

Melancholia by Lars von Trier
Django unchained
Pulp Fiction
Death Proof
Kill Bill
Inglorious Basterds
Being John Malkovic
Bram Stoker's Dracula (Coppola)
Interview with a Vampire
Edward Scissorhands
Four Rooms
Nightmare before Christmas and Corpse Bride
Dead Man
Walk the line
Lock Stock and Two Smoking Barrels
Vicky, Christina, Barcelona
The Aviator
Lola Rennt
The Crow
Fight Club
Going Postal (Discworld)
A Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy
Die Fabelhafte Welt der Amelie
Scrouching Tiger and Hidden Dragon
Stranger than Fiction
Donnie Darko
Amores Perros
The Professional
Pirates of the Caribbean
The Lord of the Rings
Dead Poet Society
thank you for smoking

This list is not comprehensible and there might be titels missing. Or not.

Shows: Game of Thrones, True Blood, Dexter, Breaking Bad, The Big Bang Theory, Fringe, Dollhouse.,The Walking Dead, House of Cards, The Newsroom, The Wire, HIMYM ....

I think TV shows are being produced and written very well and that they manage to give a critical reflection of our societies. Some at least. In they´re very provincial american way eitherway. Still I enjoy the complexity of narrative an character building, that is so much intense than in films.

Books: Terry Pratchett, JRR Tolkien and JRR Martin, Saramago, Houellebecq and post-structuralist and postmodern philosophy and cultural sciences Books.

The Principia Discordia.

Music: my favourite is rock and Nu Metal, but I like a very wide range of genres including but not limited too: jazz, ska, punk, reggae, classical, drum n bass, psychedelic, soul, funk, dubstep, swing and excluding: hip hop, rap, techno, pop

A list of bands I like coppied from my Schwarzes Glück Profile:

Marilyn Manson
System of a Down
Panteón Rococo
Rage Against the Machine
Nine Inch Nails
Dota und die Stadtpiraten
Pink Floyd
Pearl Jam
Infected Mushroom
Subway to Sally
Bob Marley
Panteón Rococó
Chemical Brothers
Die Ärzte
Die Toten Hosen
Ella Fitzgerald
Guns N Roses
Johnny Cash
Jimmy Hendrix
The Doors
Gotan Projekt
Kruder & Dorfmeister
Limp Bizkit
Linking Park
Mano Negra
Massiv Attak
Nancy Sinatra
Norah Jones
Papa Roach
Pearl Jam
Todos tus Muertos
The Smashing Pumpkins
Tito & Tarantula
Richard Cheese

All depending on the mood.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
After the basics like food and water:
Human touch and interaction
A comfy bed
I have gotten quite dependable of my smartphone too
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Lately mostly politics and all the crap happening in the world and how it is all connected and the responsability we have. Secularism and laicism. Campaining to end the war on Drugs. Gender and queer politics. With a bottle of wine usually more about philosophical topics.
Greatful for activities that keep me from thinking.

Edith: lately about hedonism, life-work-balance, ift it is worth sacrificing that much the good stuff in live to pursue a political carreer. If the world is going to shit and we might just enjoy the ride before it does, bacause at least in politics change is to painlfully slow. About relationship anarchy and how in concept it is great and quite difficult in praxis. About the fluidity of identies. About fluidity. About change. About emmigrating to the canary islands and opening a hostel or running a cannabis social club. About my next tattoo. About what color I want to dye my hair next.

About Chaos and Confusion.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
tattoos make me horny... Beards quite much the opposite
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You think that creative disorder is as good as creative order and distructive disorder as bad as distructive order.
You are or want to live and love poly.
You think there is potential.
You think it could be intellectually stimulating.
You think there might be a spark.
You want to see where the rabbithole goes.
You live nearby since I don´t fancy long distance anything.