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32 F Heidelberg, Germany

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 1
Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Full figured
Strictly vegetarian
When drinking
Atheism, and very serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Dislikes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Disclaimer: everything that is stated here is a momentary construction of my person and personality and has no claim of being whole. And it is work in progress even though I do not constantly work in it.
DISCLAIMER 2: I have a life. I don't want to spend it mostly infront of the computer and I already do so much at work. Therefore I am not looking for chat partners or pen pals. As someone here already said: it's not the 90's anymore. So I will probably not answer if you live very far away and chances are slim we can manage to meet face to face without mayor complications. I wont answer to "Hi there, how are you" or similar messages. I mostly use the app.
I am often in Stuttgart and in Berlin. Everything else that can be reached in about 2 hours from Heidelberg by train would be in my radius.
Disclaimer 3: I do NOT like beards. Although I will admit, that some guys look good with beards, I cannot stand the feeling of kissing a bearded face. At least no full beards or mustaches. I guess I am more attracted to androgyne looking men and not really going for the hole super masculine thing.

I consider myself an outgoing and laidback person with a bit of a sarcastic sense of humor. Gelassenheit has become my Life-Motto. The years have given me my quirks. There is a hippie somewhere underneath, a punk, a geek, a goth, a metalchik, dead sirious sometimes, playfull some others. Quite a feline.

I do enjoy being intellectually challenged, so the best way to score points is to engage in passionate discussions. I did study religionswissenschaft, philosophy and political science focusing on critical theory. This pretty much screwed me up in so many ways, that my world perception is probably only compatible with people that have commited to at least reading about post-structuralism. It is like taking the red pill.

I consider myself a person with lots of empathy, when past the point of critical analysis I can be very engaging.

I haven't lost all of my idealism, which is good, since I am into politics. A patina of cynisims paired with some sarcasm and selfirony has come to show though.
One issue I am very passionate about since sometime now is secularism. The other political topics are civil rights for LGBTTIQ persons and legalization and regulation of drugs. I am fighting for liberal, evidence based drug policies, that follow the principle of harm reduction.

I identify as bisexual and queer.

In respect to love: love is awesome. I like to love but I also love to play. I am looking for non monogamous relationships. I want to encounter people with an open mind and without preconfigured ideas where something is heading. Borders between relationship types are fluid for me. I am getting comfortable with the concept of relationship anarchy.
If you are looking for someone to be yours or to marry: skip ahead.

This doesn't mean I cannot commit or give myself into something. Yes. I can.

I like complicated and challenging and weird.

I have a male sexual partner, whom I have been seeing for a couple of years now. I don't have a label for this relationship.

I am more interesting in expanding my experiences with females right now.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Full time green-party-activist. Partime payed the rest freiwillige Selbstausbeutung. My freetime I try to spend as hedonistic as possible. This can also mean just chilling out and relaxing. I used to be a barkeeper and a tourist guide... sometimes I do that still.
I am not much of a planner, I go with things as they come and try to enjoy the journey. But my calender keeps getting filled all the time, which forces planning on me...darn politics.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
From the feedback I had: at giving massages
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I am quite cinephil alltough not really too artsy and I have a wast DVD collection. I insist on watching movies and TV shows in original language. I have found myself favoring good TV shows over movies lately. I still cannot explain this.

Movies: Tarantino, Coppola (both), Tim Burton, Scorcesse are my favorite directors. A list of favorite movie titles I'll add in time. It's a difficult task.

Catapulted to the top: Melancholia by Lars von Trier

Django unchained
Pulp Fiction
Death Proof
Kill Bill
Inglorious Basterds
Bram Stoker's Dracula (Coppola)
Interview with a Vampire
Edward Scissorhands
Four Rooms
Nightmare before Christmas and Corpse Bride
Dead Man
Walk the line
Lock Stock and Two Smoking Barrels
Vicky, Christina, Barcelona
The Aviator
Lola Rennt
The Crow
Fight Club
Going Postal (Discworld)
A Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy
Gegen die Wand
Die Fabelhafte Welt der Amelie
Scrouching Tiger and Hidden Dragon
Stranger than Fiction
Donnie Darko
Amores Perros
The Professional
Pirates of the Caribbean
The Lord of the Rings
Dead Poet Society
Stranger than fiction
thank you for smoking

And many others (this are from the list of movies I own)

Shows: Game of Thrones, True Blood, Dexter, Braking Bad, The Big Bang Theory, Fringe, Dollhouse. House of Cards, The Newsroom,

I think TV shows are being produced and written very well and that they manage to give a critical reflection of our societies. Some at least. In they´re very provincial american way eitherway.

Books: Terry Pratchett, JRR Tolkien and JRR Martin, Saramago, Houellebecq and post-structuralist and postmodern philosophy and cultural sciences Books.

Music: my favourite is rock and Nu Metal, but I like a very wide range of genres including but not limited too: jazz, ska, punk, reggae, classical, drum n bass, psychedelic, soul, funk, dubstep, swing and excluding: hip hop, rap, techno, pop

A list of bands I like coppied from my Schwarzes Glück Profile:

Marilyn Manson
System of a Down
Rage Against the Machine
Nine Inch Nails
Dota und die Stadtpiraten
Pink Floyd
Pearl Jam
Infected Mushroom
Subway to Sally
Bob Marley
Panteón Rococó
Chemical Brothers
Die Ärzte
Die Toten Hosen
Ella Fitzgerald
Guns N Roses
Johnny Cash
Jimmy Hendrix
The Doors
Gotan Projekt
Kruder & Dorfmeister
Limp Bizkit
Linking Park
Mano Negra
Massiv Attak
Nancy Sinatra
Norah Jones
Papa Roach
Pearl Jam
Todos tus Muertos
The Smashing Pumpkins
Tito & Tarantula
Richard Cheese

Alles sehr von meiner Stimmung abhängig.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
After the basics like food and water:
Human touch and interaction
A comfy bed
I have gotten quite dependable of my smartphone too
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Lately mostly politics and all the crap happening in the world and how it is all connected and the responsability we have. Secularism and laicism. Campaining to end the war on Drugs. Gender and queer politics. With a bottle of wine usually more about philosophical topics.
Greatful for activities that keep me from thinking.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
tattoos make me horny... Beards quite much the opposite
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are or want to live and love poly.
You think there is potential.
You think it could be intellectually stimulating.
You think there might be a spark.
You want to see where the rabbithole goes.
You live nearby since I don´t fancy long distance anything.