I'm geeky and silly and random. I want to eat healthy and local, but find it easier said than done. I was raised a Christian, but am now just confused. I support gay rights. When I get angry my tone has a distinct ring of ebonics (I am from Flint, after all.) I don't want kids and am not terribly interested in dating someone who has them, although I might make an exception for the right guy. I have several ear piercings and am interested in more. I am not adverse to men with piercings or tattoos, so long as he can still look presentable when necessary. I'm open to many ideas and love discussing important topics such as religion and politics. I would love to find someone who also enjoys this and can have a comprehensive discussion, not just defend their side of the aisle while they berate the other. I have bisexual tendencies, but I am not interested in discussing sex early in getting to know you. I'm not much of a drinker and have basically outgrown the club scene. I've also grown out of sending inappropriate pictures via text.
I'm looking for a man who is silly, smart, sensitive, sophisticated and sexy. I honestly don't know who the ideal man is. He has common sense and is kind and intelligent. He appreciates the finer things in life but knows how to be silly. He is emotionally and financially stable. He is a bit of a geek and a bit of a hippy. He replies to texts. He isn't a serious religious advocate who is going to try to convert me. I don't have a comprehensive picture, but I'll know him when I see him. I don't need to be in a relationship to be happy and I certainly don't want to be in one that makes my life more complicated, but I'd like to find a good thing :)
To reiterate my body type description - I am a chubby woman. I don't say this because I'm insecure, I'm a beautiful chubby woman ;), but if you're not interested in some extra cushion you should keep looking.
I love music and going to concerts. I love to travel - some of my favorite destinations so far are Washington DC, England, Chicago, New Orleans and Paris. I like to go to sporting events, taking walks, going to the park, visiting new places, photography, museums, crafting, going to the movies, card and board games, festivals, theater, art galleries, markets, playing paintball, arcades, the ballet, poetry, and just hanging out at home. I enjoy playing mmorpg's, cooking, cleaning, decorating the house, playing with my pets, watching Netflix and reading at home. I like to think that I have a wide range of interests.
I used to play Roller Derby in Flint, but I'm out now with a jacked-up knee. Perhaps I'll become involved as an NSO if I can find a local team with a schedule that fits mine. If you enjoy Derby bouts, that's a major plus.
I appreciate your messages, but if you do send me mail please say something more interesting than "Hi, what's up?" Introduce yourself. Display an actual interest and demonstrate that you did indeed read my profile. Thanks.