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24 Oxford, UK Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 30–49
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 15
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Working on masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Amaranth: 'the flower that never dies.' Immortality. Eternal beauty. Never-fading love.

Miss Amaranth is a quirky little queer, polyamorous writer with purple hair. This rare creature is thought to be at least 75% cat. Recent sightings have been reported in and around the city of Oxford.

I am a contradiction. A feminist and an old fashioned romantic. Shy and outspoken. Extremely driven, and the world's worst procrastinator. A traveller who needs a place to call home. A meticulously organised free spirit.

I have been described as "too opinionated for [my] own good" and "less innocent than [I] look." I took both as compliments.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I don't have a life. My Masters degree ate it., yeah, studying for an MA in fiction writing by night. Working in a theatre by day. I'm afraid I'm one of those annoying people who's a little bit in love with my job.

What else?

Well, there's this man who owns my heart and soul. To say he is the love of my life doesn't even cover it. <3

I also have two wonderful sweeties who I see as often as I can.

Spiritually and religiously Pagan.

Cat owne...umm, owned by a cat. I know my place!

I have a strong sense of wanderlust. There's a little part of me that fantasises about packing a suitcase, hopping on a plane and spending a year going around the world.

I like to keep fit by swimming and going to the gym.

Wherever I go, I can reliably be spied drinking copious quantities of tea and hugging someone.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
.....getting myself into completely ridiculous and often rather surreal situations!

Well, they make for interesting stories.

Also getting lost. Ask me about the time I tried to be too clever for my own good and got lost in Warsaw. Funny now, not so at the time!

What else?

Well, primarily, I'm good at words. Whether it's writing a beautiful fictional passage, crafting the perfect love-letter, or eloquently arguing my point, words are my drug, my poison, my weapon of choice.

More? Okay, being a good friend. Being there for those I care about. Cheering them up and cheering them on when things get tough. Always being crazy-busy, but always finding time for the people I love.

Playing hostess. I'm a proud foodie and little will make me happier than a table full of people sitting down to a meal I've lovingly created. Also, my cakes are a-freaking-mazing. Trust me.

I'm very independant and take pride in supporting myself. Also pretty skilled at figuring things out when I've no idea how to do them

On the significantly less practical side, I'm a sucker for old-fashioned romance. If I love you, I'll write you soppy poetry, kiss you in the rain, and travel all night just to meet you when your flight gets in at dawn.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
This one's easy - the purple hair!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books (Fiction):
'Nineteen Minutes' (Jodi Picoult); 'Sing You Home' (Jodi Picolt); 'Tipping the Velvet' (Sarah Waters); Pages For You (Sylvia Brownrigg); 'Thursday Next' series (Jasper Fforde); 'The Hunger Games' trilogy (Suzanne Collins); 'Love You Two' (Maria Pallotta-Chiarolli); 'The Kite Runner' (Khaled Hosseini); 'Room' (Emma Donoghue); 'Atonement' (Ian McEwan); 'Memoirs of a Geisha' (Arthur Golden); 'The Vampire Chronicles' (Anne Rice)

Books (Non-fiction):
90% of my non-fiction collection is about either sexuality or writing in their various forms. This actually sums me up pretty well.

Moulin Rouge, The Phantom of the Opera, Imagine Me and You, Loving Annabelle, Milk, A Very Long Engagement, Spirited Away, 10 Things I Hate About You, Atonement, Beautiful Thing, Edge of Seventeen, Boys Don't Cry, The Hunger Games series, Pride.

Nightwish, Within Temptation, Evanescence, Paramore, New Years Day, Hey Monday, Delain, Kimya Dawson, Corinna Fugate, My Chemical Romance, Emilie Autumn, Ingrid Michaelson, Angelzoom, The Moldy Peaches, Avril Lavigne, Lacuna Coil

Music (Musicals):
Les Miserables; Wicked; Into the Woods; Chess; Phantom of the Opera; Little Shop of Horrors; Fame; Avenue Q.

I am pretty sure I could happily eat sushi every day for the rest of my life.

I also love Thai, Chinese, Italian and Indian food.

And I could not live without chocolate.

TEA TEA TEA TEA TEA! (Drunk the proper British way - that is, unadulterated with milk, sugar or anything else.) Also coffee, with milk and lots of sugar this time. I'm contrary that way. Gin is my poison of choice when it comes to alcohol, though I'll never turn down a well-made fancy cocktail.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Partners, sweeties, friends and family (both bio- and -logical) mean the absolute world to me.

They're the blood in my veins and the air I breathe.

My kitty is my child. Yes, I'm one of those awful people who prefers the company of my cat to a large percentage of the human race. SorryNotSorry.

Hugs, cuddles, kisses, touching, stroking, massage, playing with hair, sex, or just sleeping in each others' arms.

I love trying new dishes, recipes and restaurants. Bit of a weakness for cocktails and good gin. I also have a caffeine habit the size of a small country.

From exploring a new country, to discovering something exciting right here in my own city... I crave adventure in all its forms.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'd love to say something deeply philosophical here, but actually some of the things I think about a lot are what I might have for dinner tonight, the ongoing scheduling dance that is my life, financial stuff, and whether my country will ever give us a freaking summer!

My Love, of course, is never far from my thoughts.

Oh, and I occasionally think about whatever story I'm writing. Or thinking about writing. Or thinking that I really should be thinking about writing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sleeping. I'm old.

Or alternatively, probably travelling, packing or otherwise preparing for whatever I'm doing for the rest of the weekene.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have Depression, SAD and some form or other of PTSD. Only ask me about this if you're prepared to hear the answers.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. like the sound of me and want to be friends first, see how we relate to each other, and let our connection fall to the level it is naturally supposed to take.'re not freaked out by queerness, polyamory, feminism or very smart women. want to enthuse about a shared interest.'re a hopeless romantic with a beautiful mind and an insatiable lust for adventure. have a way with words that can render me utterly unable to resist writing back. actually bothered to read this profile, not just looked at the photo. value long lasting love over random sex or a quick hook-up.

Oh, and I will not respond to men younger than 30. I'm just not interested. If you're really extraordinary I _might_ make the odd exception, but don't count on it.