MissBernstein
28 Zürich, Switzerland
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My self-summary
(People read my profile first before you want to get in touch!)

First of all, I'm having a hard time answering all the messages - so it might take a while or I won't even bother. Especially if the message is something like "Hi! How r u?". Due to health issues (depression, endometriosis) I very carefully decide on what or whom to spend my energy on. This might change again, but that's how it is right now.

I'm a very simple and complicated person with a lot of love for many people and many things.

Those are some key words that describe me a bit:
married, enfp, polyamorous, panromantic, fray/graysexual (asexual spectrum), vegan, singing teacher/singer, yoga teacher, animal lover, people lover, non-hating, innovative, normally very positive, open-hearted, open-minded, demanding, supporting
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to live an authentic life.
I’m really good at
listening
comforting
discussing
being silly
being clever
singing
talking
criticizing
compromising
understanding
The first things people usually notice about me
"Oh what's your name again? Leyla? As in "Layla" by Eric Clapton?" - Well actually, nobody said this for a long time now. Does nobody know Eric Clapton anymore?

- Well this has been true for years but hasn't happened lately.

Now I think it's more the fact that I have a different hairdo every couple months ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm not that much of a writer, so there goes my list
(love to talk 'though) :

Movies:
Her, Big Fish, Once, The Last Unicorn, Avatar, In Bruges, Color Purple, Earthlings ...

Shows:
True Blood, Avatar the Last Airbender, Daily Show, Bob's Burgers, Southpark, Gravity Falls, Arrow, Supernatural, Fullmetal Alchemist (Brotherhood)...

Music:
I LOVE Damien Rice! Ryan Adams, Tom Odell, Ray Lamontagne, Rachael Yamagata, Tobias Carshey, Lauryn Hill, Jazmine Sullivan, Bon Iver, The Roots ...

Food: Almost everything vegan ;)
The six things I could never do without
my husband, my pets, my friends, my tattoos, my beliefs, my trust, my hope, my love, my motivation and all the bullshit I talk with my friends

(I can count. But I chose to ignore it.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Authenticity. Love... I know I'm repeating everything, but these things are really important to me.

I want to find and have connections - I don't like superficiality.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hmm.. there's no such thing as typical actually.

I might stay at home, surf through the internet and watch almost every documentary I can find

I might stay at home with my friends, drinking, talking, watching a movie

I might go out - alone or with people

I might dogsit for my friends which are going out
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Guess there's nothing really I call private.
You should message me if
...if you are not searching for the one and only
...if you can handle the fact that I'm married and very much in love with my husband and that we're planning to have a baby
...if you're willing to meet my dogs if you want to meet me.
...if you have something interesting to say

Messages like: "Hi hw r u?" don't really get my attention.

I am polyamorous - this won't change.
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