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I am a bisexual, pagan, artistic, sensual and voluptuous woman with a thirst for the erotic and sexual encounters I have found.

I like women, men, couples and trans who are friendly, enjoy a relaxing drink and some passionate sex. I am into many aspects of the bdsm lifestyle, also, and I'm always happy to talk to novices or the more experienced kinksters. However while I enjoy bdsm, I also love vanilla or 'normal' relations and everything inbetween.

I am in a open/Poly relationship with a loving man - he knows I am on here and loves that I have other lovers. No he does not need to join in nor does he insist on meeting people - he just needs to know I am safe and happy :)

I love sex in all its many forms and have a very high sex drive - a trait me and my partner don't share. I am very very keen on ongoing lovers to share some great times with. I don't like one night stands - And I am not attracted to people until I get to know them a little. While physical attractiveness is nice, I am a firm believer that the brain is the sexiest organ in the body.

PLEASE NOTE --- 1) I don't mind married people, however, I will not be kept in a box like a booty call. I will not let you leave your wife, and I will not fall in love with you.

2) Yes I am very kinky sometimes and have alot of fetishes - that does not mean you can address me as slave, sub, slut, whore ect. I will just block you. Also note that I am mainly Domme, and I don't like submissives that try to top from the bottom. Please, Do not let my kinky side scare you off, it is just one small part of my sexual spectrum.

3) Unlike some women on here I try to reply to everyone, but if I say no thanks - for god sake just take it gracefully and don't send me abuse - I'll report you.

Apart from that long list....I hope to hear from you all soon! looking forward to some fun!

I am currently on a pension - due to unfortunate circumstances I am having to travel regularly to syd/liverpool to be with my father who is in hospital there. However, I sew on commision (costumes, formal and bridal, fetish wear and other alternate wear including corsets,) and I also do a little work at home. I am looking at going to uni in the next couple of years to do social work. I am very interested in world matters, humanitarian matters, victims rights and mental health matters.

Sewing - I thoroughly enjoy dressmaking, designing and embroidery, as well as some cross stitch. I'm also very good at drinking *ahem*, lol. I enjoy painting scrapbooking, reading, writing, crafts of all sorts, I am very interested in and knowledgeable about paganism and wiccan/shamanistic practices and would consider my religion to be 'Pagan'.
I'm very good at talking (jabbermouth :) and I am also a very good cook. Oh well, enough of tooting my own horn lol.

Oh...My physicality in its entirety I suppose (my friends have nicknamed me amazon woman lol). I am tall and big, bbw (Aus size 22). I use it to my advantage. I suppose second they would notice my loud laugh or my smile - as I have quite large lips. Mentally, I guess they would probably notice my offbeat sense of humor, (think Ross Noble, black books, Eddie Izzard ect.) and I really enjoy having a laugh and a drink.

hmmm....my sight, my two best friends (we'll call them K and C), sex and sensuality, my cats, my sewing machine.

cooking, sewing projects, life in general, sexuality, mental health and social matters. psychology. general philosophy. language. the future.

ummm...completely erratic. atm however, I'm going back and forward to liverpool, so every second friday I'm with my dad in liverpool, every other friday I try to catch up with people or rest.

I have several interesting party tricks up my sleeve, most of which I have to be drunk to perform - all of which hurt, but never fail to get a response! (and most embarrasing of all, lol, two of my favourite movies ever are the sound of music and mary poppins. I love old school disney

Friends first! lol. esp if you are female or transgendered and in ACT or Australia.

Otherwise....

I love women and I miss a womans touch. I want passion, a woman as sexual and sensual as myself who can also be a good friend.

I am also interested in meeting couples and women who want sexual friends, I am a nice person and I am looking for people who would enjoy some regular relaxing sex nights.

I like friendly respectful men. If you send me a one line message or are rude at all I assure you you will not get a positive result. But a passionate male lover would be most welcome, as my favorite playmate has recently got engaged and I find myself lonely :(

I am not turned off by bisexual men like alot of women - don't let that worry you. I also am happy to meet trans.

I am very interested in meeting other pagans, and people in the canberra Pagan scene.

note - for those of you who are interested in my kinkier side - I am a switch so can accommodate both Dom/me and sub.

Please feel free to message me - I don't bite unless invited :P