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44 San Jose, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 44–51
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 15
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I like piña coladas, getting caught in the rain....wait - that's a song. I'm a Virgo and I like long walks on the beach...wait - that's a cliche. Crap. I hate essays about myself.

Let's see... When I think of myself, I can only think of one word. That word would have to be: Sexy.
I think, how can one woman be soooo goddamn sexy???? Then I think of my helicopter. And how much I love to fly it.
Then I think of a basket full of kittens...

I adore a man with a really good sense of humor. For the love of god, please have the ability to laugh at yourself, at the human condition and the absurdity of it all. But also see the amazingness of it all. Don't be too jaded. The world is ridiculous, but it's also pretty damned amazing.

I admire a man that still has a sense of adventure. I don't mean he has to have plans to scale Mt. Everest (no death wishes, please), but someone who will try a new item off the sushi menu would be cool. Or who likes to ski. I love to ski.

I really, honestly like guys. I'm completely down to do guy stuff. You want to go to a Giant's game or a Shark's game? Let's do it! Let's go play basketball (even though our team will lose if I'm on it -- sorry) or hang out and watch action movies. I would have a blast. I'm not too much into girly stuff, but it's nice to get fancy and do dinner every once in a while. I still like to show you that I'm a woman and be sexy for you. After all, I'm definitely NOT a guy!!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Right now -- I think I may be self-sabotaging with my summary and half of my answers to these questions. But who can resist them, really? The set-ups are just too easy!!

But, honestly - I AM here to find someone. A man who might get me. A man who might see past the funny and want to get to know the other parts of me (shockingly, I am multidimensional)!

I think that these things are a bit silly and so I have fun with it. I would love to find a man who might think that these things are a bit silly himself, but also be multidimensional and be looking for someone special to share all of those aspects of himself.

Dating should be fun and if there is a connection, then you take it a bit further. See if there is something deeper. I don't want my first date to end up in a declaration of everlasting love (weird). I want to laugh and maybe, if we're lucky, find a spark. Some chemistry that makes us want to have the night last a bit longer. (So we can spend more time together - get your mind out of the gutter)!

Meanwhile, I think I just keep lowering my percentages with potentially really good dates by answering these questions with outrageous answers.

Good lord, somebody stop me, because I can't seem to stop myself!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Apparently filling out essays about myself.
I think I totally crushed it!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The questionnaire I have everyone fill out. It's super long.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
ok, I can be a tiny bit sappy...this is my favorite quote, because each time I read it, it reminds me to open my heart.

"There is no safe investment. To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly be broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one, not even to an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements; lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket — safe, dark, motionless, airless – it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. The alternative to tragedy, or at least to the risk of tragedy, is damnation. The only place outside Heaven where you can be perfectly safe from all the dangers and perturbations of love is Hell."
-c. s. lewis
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
• My daughter
• Mr Happy Go Lucky (my horse)
• Mr Tater Salad & Mrs Tuna Salad (my dogs)
• Quirky and random things that happen in life
• Twizzlers...or Red Vines. I don't play favorites (and the debate rages on....)
• 6 more wishes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Ummmmm.......or is that ohmmmmm.....?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing what everybody on OKC is doing ... eating puffer fish in the most exclusive restaurant in San Francisco, running around Machu Picchu doing yoga or playing golf in Cabo San Lucas.
You know, just regular singleton stuff.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Unlike everybody else here on freakin' OKC, I am not a genius in the kitchen. Thank god you are, though. If we ever fall in love, maybe I'll finally beat this malnutrition thing! Yay!!

Ok, ok....In all seriousness, I do admit to this:
I am willing to risk heartbreak in order to find love.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I'm not gonna tell you how to live your life. Message if you want. Don't if you don't want. I'm super happy to get messages, though, if you are on the fence.

On a side note -- I see a lot of people post this, and I'm nothing if not a sheep in the herd, so here goes (but I'm not sure it means squat):
***WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects – you DO NOT have the permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.