I have found the very few people ever know all of me, this is what people know about me.
Im fun and really nice. I am extremely easy to talk to and I tend to have a pretty intresting outlook on life and the day to day things in it. I am cuddly and sweet but i have a sharp tongue when i am defensive, i am extremely non confontational so if you just want to yell at me or argue your in for a disappointment unless its the debating fun kind of arguing. I am in love with music and anything to do with it and am always open to new bands or anything that i havent heard before. I have a big family with everything from lesbians to bible thumpers, baby factories to rich crazy old spinsters so there is always an intresting story to be told. to know more about my personality type you could go to this link (http://typelogic.com/infj.html)and read up, and maybe take the test yourself. The results are extremely accurate as long as you are honest with yourself and are not afraid to be faced with the truth. Although i must admit there are somethings that dont quite fit how i want myself portrayed but honesty is always best. * I like to just sit and talk about anything and everything, random conversations and what if scenarios are fun, i like caring and affectionate men the kind that likes to be touched and cuddled in their sleep and enjoys breakfast in bed, im a huge romantic and enjoy making people smile and feel good. i believe in relishing the differences in people and i like when guys are eccentric and into weird things it makes life more interesting. I prefer men that are socially graceful because i hate having to clean up the mess when they arent. i tend to be pretty accepting of people and all facets of their lifestyles as long as it doesn't hurt anyone. the things that most people dont know about me is that I am very stuck on myself not in a "oh i am the hottest thing alive" way but i am very into figuring out who i am and why i do things the way that i do. i like to learn how to be the best me i can be by examining the patterns.

I am open-minded, intuitive, and nurturing

I dont know what i am going to do with my life part, currently i am working an 8-5 but of me wants to become a writer, maybe i will be a photographer. or I could be a professional reader. If i could watch movies professionally that would be the shit, i dunno i gotta do something i just dont know what.... there are so many things i like to do that i cant pick just one. I am getting too old to be so unfocused. I just know that at this point im tired of being alone but at the same time i dont know if i am ready to put the time into another relationship, it takes so long to get to know someone and then you find out they arent who you thought they were and you wasted all that time.

solving problems and making things go smoothly I have a calming effect on people and animals.people tell me i am a great singer and that i am an intense writer. I am a really good cook and I really like photography. i enjoy looking at the world through a lens and capturing the beauty i see there. listening and i am a very good empath.

my eyes,i guess they are really shiny ewwww shiny! or the way i always seem to be smiling about something.

A) the Anita Blake series, the Carpathian series, the Xanth series, the mode series,the harry potter series, the lotr series, the vampire chronicles,the giver,the hitchhikers guide to the galaxy,blood and chocolate,dream a little dream, the scarlet letter,the DeVinci code, if i pay thee not in gold, jonny the homicidle maniac to name a very few. I love to read the list could go on forever.

B)dumplings,secretary,labrynth,legend,willow, lotr trilogy, fear and loathing in las vegas,reseivor dogs,natural born killers,momento, american history x, trainspotting,fight club, unbreakable, dazed and confused, may, pirates of the carribean, jay and silentbob all around, the nightmare before christmas, interveiw with a vampire, hedwig and the angry inch,rocky horror picture show, snatch, underworlds, don juan demarco, o brother where art thou, empire records butterfly effect,se7en, dawn of the dead, texas chainsaw massacer,house of 1000 corpses,princess bride, training day adult swim, Mr. hell show,simpsons,pulp fiction,donnie darko, saw, boondock saints,invader zim,harry potter,minority report, constantine,the matrix 2001 maniacs there is alot more but i cant think of them at the moment in case you didnt notice I like to watch movies alot

C)Ani defranco,melissa ethridge, counting crows,sublime,fiona apple,meatloaf,offspring,system of a down, incubus, the beatles, tom petty, david bowie,wu tang clan, nirvana, bob dylan, outkast,Newsboys, dc talk,everclear, snoop dogg,oasis,Mason jennings, eryka badu, nicki minaj, lil wayne, kesha, van morrison, drake, adele, eminem, jeffery star,and really almost anything i love to hear new stuff i am the kind of person that doesnt just listen to one group or artist i like what is pleasing to my ears at the time folk music,wiccan chants what have you

D)pizza, tacos, salad, chicken!,calamari ,strawberries, fresh pinapple, fruit in general i love to cook my favorite food this week has been mustard chicken

I could never do without my sisters. My family are my best friends.
i would be very bored without my imagination and books.
an animal companion they just make life less lonely even at its worst,
also movies i can never wait for them to hit the shelves the only tv i really watch is trueblood and cartoons but I am a movie junkie.
I know it says six i am not an idiot and i can count i just dont feel strongly enought about anything else to say that i could never do without them and i think the question was not intended for the basic human needs such as air water food and the sort so there ya have it folks. come to think of it this question kinda makes me think about creepy psychos trying to find the things i love most and take them away. your not going to try anything like that are you?:P

what it would be like to be able to live inside other people for short periods and see the world through their eyes. is red the same shade of red to them as it is to me? what animals are thinking, what people look like naked and what their "O" face looks like. where my life will end up. whatlife would be like if i could travel at will in alternate realities bassed upon my dreams. Why everyone on here has kids. not that i am against kids, I am really good with kids and they can be alot of fun. i just sometimes feel like the last kid free woman out there at times

At home reading or watching movies sometimes downtown when i am guilt tripped into going because I "never go to the bars" ( phase is usually whinned at my by a friend or sister) I dont really dig the bars but I live in a college town and they are kinda gross. I am very social I just prefer the drunks i know to the drunks i dont.

i have 9 piercings my nipples and my tongue and my ears. my moms a lesbian, i am a bastard child of an inter-racial couple, i snore more often than not (because i have allergies and i always have a fuzzy pet) i sleep with 9 pillows on my bed and only actually use two, the fitted sheet always has to be on the bed or i cant sleep i dunno why its a pain in the ass to fix all the time then the sheet then a comforter and a mattress pad then another comforter that is what i sleep on then i sleep under a down comforter or a silk sheet in the summer. i am a bit spoiled, ( this has never been more obvious to me than it is now after having returned from china and the poverty of the small town i stayed in)not that i expect to be spoiled all the time( at least no more than any woman who deserves to be treated like the queen she is) it just seems to be something that people tend to enjoy doing. i (in denial) like to think i have just had a charmed life and family. I am never on OKCupid much you would have better luck contacting me on FB. http://www.facebook.com/#/profile.php?ref=name&id=505563279

you can hold a conversation, see that we have something in common, you live in the area, wanna hang out or just want someone to talk to who isnt a pet or a reflection.