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46 • Simpsonville, SC • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 36–52
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating
- Last online
- Online now!
- 5′ 6″ (1.68m)
- Body type
- Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
- Has a kid
With me there is always a handful of projects ongoing. I thrive on being inspired and supported. I am not afraid of hard physical or mentally demanding work. You'll find me to be an analytical and deep thinker. I don't "try" to be, I just am. If you are too, you'll know exactly what I mean. I am a natural skeptic and contrarian and I question everything. I'm driven to find solutions. I am not above compromise and will frequently take the short end of the stick just to move beyond something.
I generally like most people I meet and they generally like me. Being a very social person comes naturally to me. I have a wide net of friends from various political, religious and socioeconomic backgrounds, BUT that doesn't mean I want to feel their breath on my neck for the foreseeable future. My man will enjoy stimulating conversation, have similar political ideologies and subscribe to no godly, magical, superstitious or anti-science views ( this includes paleo diets, astrology, creationism, intelligent design, cupping, reiki, acupuncture, homeopathy, oils, crystals, voodoo etc). I want a real man grounded in the real world.
I am the mother of two adult children and a ten year old son that I adopted as a single woman. I prefer polite and gentle men that understand what it means to be concerned with things beyond their personal interests.
I'm also very good at coming up with ideas, solutions and compromises.
Movies: I don't have the opportunity to see many adult genre new releases. But as for oldies, I will never pass up the chance to see Love Actually, Goodfellas, The Great Santini, Same time Next Year, The Eternal Sunshine of a Spotless Mind, 9 to 5, Die Hard-whenever they are available. These are just a few that pop into my mind. Really, really enjoyed Mr. Nobody.
Music- My Favorite Artists: Marvin Gaye, Van Morrison, Steely Dan, Michael Franti, Bruce Hornsby, Sublime, Girltalk, The Supremes, Dylan and I have a fond affection for soulful women with powerful vocal chords like Gladys Knight, Lauryn Hill, Joss Stone, Amy Winehouse to name a few.
money (or another system of acquisition)
inspiration and ideas
your general intelligence is equal to or greater than my own
you have wit and humour
you are within my age preferences (a year or 2 either way won't make a difference, but please no extremes)
you do not hold beliefs in any gods/deities or superstitions of any sort.
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