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46 Simpsonville, SC Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 36–52
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:57pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Has a kid

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My self-summary
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I am not fond of profiles that start off by announcing what it is one does not like, so it pains me to have to resort to it myself. Sometimes I will receive such a great opening note or read an interesting profile, so naturally I delve further under the "questions" tab. How frustrating it is when I see only a few questions answered. It matters not at all if your follow-up note says, "feel free to ask whatever you want to know". The questions ARE part of the vetting process. Who wants to invest time in the un-invested?

Secondly, the question I first look at above all others is "Should evolution and creationism be taught side-by-side in school?" When answered in the affirmative, this is IMO, by far the MOST telling of questions. It gives SO MUCH insight into one's views on science, what the word "America" means to you, child-rearing, critical thinking, value for society and general decision making. I don't come to my conclusions lazily - and I honestly just could not have respect for a mind that would promote such nonsense.

With that said, ...

I moved to SC from Pittsburgh three years ago. Climate was a high priority to me at the time, but I didn't realize just how difficult it would be finding suitable romantic prospects in this area with whom I could actually consider lasting partnership. I've always known I was choosing from the wading pool, but with this move, I am inclined to believe I'm in a jacuzzi.

With me there is always a handful of projects ongoing. I thrive on being inspired and supported. I am not afraid of hard physical or mentally demanding work. You'll find me to be an analytical and deep thinker. I don't "try" to be, I just am. If you are too, you'll know exactly what I mean. I am a natural skeptic and I question everything and I'm driven to find solutions. I am not above compromise and will frequently take the short end of the stick just to move beyond something.

I generally like most people I meet and they generally like me. Being a very social person comes naturally to me. I have a wide net of friends from various political, religious and socioeconomic backgrounds, BUT that doesn't mean I want to feel their breath on my neck for the foreseeable future. My man will enjoy stimulating conversation, have similar political ideologies and subscribe to no religious, magical or superstitious views. I want a real man grounded in the real world.

I am the mother of two adult children and an nine year old son that I adopted as a single woman. I prefer men that are selfless,and polite. Gentlemen that understand what it means to be concerned with things beyond their personal interests.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
trying to figure out what practical, possible and fulfilling things my life should include. This will always be the case.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at getting people to try something new, leaving people in a better mood and making people laugh.

I'm also very good at coming up with ideas, solutions and compromises.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'd be remiss if I didn't say my hair color. It is not at all unusual for people, whom I am talking to for the first time, to say they've seen me before. I've even received mail on OKCupid telling me they saw me here or there. I see the glow in the eyes of teen girls when they come up to talk to me. Occasionally people will ask me if they can touch it (I don't think they understand right away that purple, pink and blue feel the same as blonde or brunette-lol)

I guess that along with my hair colour, my personality and energy are what people notice most.

If I go to the elementary school, the children will come up to me a give a hug. If I go to the grocery stores the elderly will undoubtedly ask for my assistance. I always go introduce myself to any new neighbors. At the places I shop, people treat me like a friend.

People often make guesses as to what my occupation might be or give me their opinions as to what I should be! Typically these strangers usually suggest such things as spokesperson, educator, actress that sort. Close friends think I am more on the lines of psychologist and attorney.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Television for me is whatever happens to be on for the most part. I really don't have any idea about schedules of particular shows. I am more of a web reader of blogs and Reddit. I enjoy keeping abreast of world news.

Movies: I don't have the opportunity to see many adult genre new releases. But as for oldies, I will never pass up the chance to see Love Actually, Goodfellas, The Great Santini, Same time Next Year, The Eternal Sunshine of a Spotless Mind, 9 to 5, Die Hard-whenever they are available. These are just a few that pop into my mind. Really, really enjoyed Mr. Nobody.

Music- My Favorite Artists: Marvin Gaye, Van Morrison, Steely Dan, Michael Franti, Bruce Hornsby, Sublime, Girltalk, The Supremes, Dylan and I have a fond affection for soulful women with powerful vocal chords like Gladys Knight, Lauryn Hill, Joss Stone, Amy Winehouse to name a few.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my children
money (or another system of acquisition)
inspiration and ideas
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Great love, great loss and why people think the way they do.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you are a kind, confident and reciprocal person
your general intelligence is equal to or greater than my own
you have wit and humour
you are within my age preferences (a year or 2 either way won't make a difference, but please no extremes)
you do not hold beliefs in any gods/deities or superstitions of any sort.