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39 New York, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 34-44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 18
Black, Other
5' 1" (1.55m)
Body Type
Christianity but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First and foremost, just because I am up front about what I want does not mean it's o.k. to be rude, disrespectful, or too forward. And just because I want a bi guy doesn't mean I want to talk about sex.

Single brownskinned female here. Very cute, petite, nice body, very nice butt, 1 piercing and 1 tattoo. I am smart, funny, outgoing, and honest. I like to cook, I love gadgets, computers, video games (although I suck at them), music, and dancing. Like to play sports but only for fun since I am not very good at them. I like going out for dinner and drinks at upscale restaurants, or can kick back at a small hole-in-the-wall for a burger. Museums, Broadway, or just relaxing at home watching a movie.

I am a Bi Switch and enjoy some kink in the bedroom... I can explore both Domme and sub aspects with the right person but tend to be more dominant. If you are interested please email me and we can chat about what we both want/need and if we might be right for each other.

Looking for a bi guy so, not to be rude, but if your profile says straight and you message me, please tell me if you are bi or I will not reply. I'll probably not reply to initial messages that are 1 word or 1 sentence.

If you are straight, don't message me asking a bunch of questions, or telling me you have what I need, and please don't ask why I want a bi guy. No one asks guys why they want bi girls. Also please don't ask what I "plan to do" to a bi guy. No plans. We can figure out what we'll do together...

Be ready for a phone or Skype call before meeting.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm advancing in my career and learning lots of stuff along the way.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hmm, that's a tuffy. What do I think or what do others think?

Cooking. I am an excellent cook. Self taught and not a chef by any stretch, but can whip up a great meal. Took a few classes and was even told by one of the teachers that I should go pro. :)

Puzzles, and puzzling questions. I am a problem solver and love tackling puzzles, and I don't just mean games, but work as well.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Great skin and smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Love all (well most) foods. Love trying new things. Open to exploring.

Book - Last book I read and loved was a few years ago. Blindess. They made a movie out of it but the books are always better.

Movies - well I am pretty easy to please when it comes to movies. I'll watch anything that's even mildly entertaining. I like RomCom, Action, SciFi, and scary moves.

Music tastes are eclectic. I have everything from classical to gospel to rap, country and pop on my phone...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Fresh fruit / good food
My family
Something to read
Music & dancing (casual not pro)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My next vacation
My career
My cat
Whatever I am into at the moment. right now, yoga and steampunk
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Awesome. :)

Could be in for the night in or out with friends. Usually spur of the moment type stuff.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My friends and family don't know I am bi, so that's why no face pic.
You should message me if
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You are single, unattached, bi and enjoy some kink in the bedroom, BUT I want to meet someone with whom I could have an LTR and enjoy a normal dating relationship outside of the bedroom... Not looking for a FWB or NSA.

Again, primarily looking for a bi guy so, please tell me if you are bi or I will probably will not reply.