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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 41–53
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 10
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Not at all
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Has kids
English (Fluently), Portuguese (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am as lovely as I look . I am a very sensual woman & experience my world through all my senses .
If you are my friend then I talk & listen to you, support you through the roller a coaster of life & I give you a hug when we meet & walk arm & arm with you down the street.
I am thoughtful ,caring ,reflective .
I am grounded in the very real world .
I have lovely friends from all backgrounds ,countries & religions and would expect you to too.
I don't experience my life through a flat screen - I go out & do stuff for real .
I am not your watching a crate of red wine on the sofa whilst sitting on the DVD sorta woman .... I will be found however at one of the many Curzons (Richmond / Soho / Mayfair ) watching some Fabby Art house film most weeks .
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Constantly reviewing my place in the world . Learning about myself & how I interact with others .
I am on a journey of self improvement . I never do the same as everyone else just because it is thought that one should .

That doesn't mean that I am surrounded by sparkly crystals or joss sticks ... What it means is that guys who date me , meet a real non plastic woman ... Who has never been psycho once a month or in fact ever at all.

I am easy peasy lemon squeezy to be with & would be your very least demanding girl friend should you get that far ...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
In no particular order -
Laughing , smiling & being funny . Organising & planning .
I am that person you would want to stand next to you in times of crisis . Solving problems .Creating creative solutions . Getting places on time . Laughing at myself & crazy situations .
Kissing ..... to me tis an art form .
Swooning when kissed .
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I look like my photos ..... Yes I really do .... hair is at Lady Godiva length now .. & nope I am not planning to cut it ...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I wanna go out ... To me staying at home is not fun ... Although I love my flat ... I really , really want to experience the world outside my own front door .
I am very rarely found in front of a TV in fact pretty much never . I like to see films at the cinema , I love galleries in particular installation art . I am always on the lookout & have my ear to the ground for interesting things to do .
Hey & I just book & go ... either by myself or with a friend , or partner . I am happiest when I look at my calendar & see trips & outings planned ..

Hmmm so what have I being doing lately .

British Library - Magna Carta exhibition .

Had a totally wonderful time at the " Vaults Festival " during Feb & March ( which was under Waterloo Station ) .

Comedy - Shappi Khorsandi ( she was totally brilliant ) , Frank Skinner . Mark Thomas ( Very clever show & deserves all his 4 & 5 stars )

Royal Academy - Sensing Spaces . Anselm Kiefer .

Hayward Gallery - Martin Creed plus most exhibitions that are shown there .

Tate - Matisse , Conflict Time photography - very moving . Sigmar Polke - Wow I want to do some dots now too .
Tate Britain - Turner

Festival Hall - Catching dreams - a very moving exhibition of art by offenders & secure patients

Shows - Stephen Ward , Once , The Scottsboro Boys .

La Boheme … The Nutcracker ..

Plays - Ghosts , The Other Room ( or the vibrator play ) , The Hotel Plays , Warhorse .

Films - Wild Tales ,Force Majeure ,Nebraska , Fill the void ,The Dallas Cowboy , Blue is the Warmest Colour .... Finding Vivian Maier , The 100 year old man who climbed out the window & disappeared , Boyhood , Ida , Pride .
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books although I keep checking out The Kindle
Kissing & love .
Art house films - I go into withdrawal if I haven't seen a subtitled film in which nothing much appears to have happened for a week or so.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Many ,many things .......
I am learning all the time ... my world does not stand still ..

How many men have lived in London or on the outskirts of London all their lives yet don't know London … & then get all scared when arranging a date if I say yes lets meet in Town … & even more scared if it involves a train / tube or bus … It makes me think I must be even more super fearless than I thought ! cos I have an Oyster & know how to use it .
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I really , really do like men ( obviously not all of you pass muster ) ... I love how you are in my company whether as friends or lovers .

I will not take your power away . I want you to be men . That does not mean I am submissive in anyway either in or out of bed .
I like the power & interchange of energy between man & woman .
You should message me if
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You want to hang out with a funny , intelligent , Emotionally intelligent , veeeerrrry self aware woman ...
If you don't need to google " sensual " .
Are not scared of affection ..

So I am/ want to see / do over the next few weeks

Likely go to Udderbelly / Wonderland festival over the next few months
Comedy - I like the Soho Theatre
Aiming to see the arty shows currently happening in our wonderful city Plus any modern stuff that takes my fancy … Hayward is installing new exhibition .

Loads of plays I wanna see .

Music & bands well I am up for that too ...
& of course I am often to be found at a Curzon cinema ... Oooh I really like the new one in Victoria ..& updated Bloomsbury .