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MisstressMandy

20 / F / bisexual / Single

Helena, Montana

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Often
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Capricorn and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Sign_Language (Poorly)

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I am Qwirky, Outgoing, and Down-to-earth.

My Self-Summary

Hummm...few sentences about myself; well for one I'm hard to describe, horrible at spelling, value uniqueness and diversity, I like to be intellectually stimulated as well as sexually.

I am brutally honest, kind of a hippie, kinda gothic, kinda punk but mostly crazy, I listen to my music loud, and I can be very unpredictable at times, I like to have fun, I enjoy the quiet of nature and the craziness of night life. Just so long as a good time is involved.

I'll just be honest I'm really only looking to be involved with an Indigo Chlid and if you don't know what that means don't even bother... and I've come to find that these websites aren't very good for people interested in Polynamory so FOR WARNING one person will NOT be able to complete me! So if your a jealous person by nature stay far away from me because I am quite coquetish and don't plan on changing my lifestyle for anyone. But if your an independant person who sees beauty in the people and places around you and would enjoy a companion with similar interests then maybe we can walk side by side.

If there is anything that's not covered here just contact me and I'd be more than happy to tell you.

What I’m doing with my life

Umm... well I have dreams and goals but everyone has those. I am planning on joining The Peace Corp and make a difference in a latin country.... I always say.... STOP BITCHIN' and start a revolution!!

After that I want to open my own resurant... a bakery cafe :D

Other than that.... I'm an international artist... and just trying to stay alive and taking in every moment I can before it's all over... because you know they say life is a beach and then you fry!

I’m really good at

Well I can't say I'm really good at them but, I can usually make people feel good about themselves. I also like to play guitar, sing, dance, cook, learn new languages, watch movies, play video games, play card games (like D&D, Magic the Gathering, and Guild Wars etc.) and write poetry

Writing has always been my release in times of strife for me, and I usually have a way of displaying my frustration in song or in my poems well.

anal sex. both giving and receiving. deal with that society.

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The first things people usually notice about me

I don't know probably the very vulgar joke thats most likely coming from my lips.. Or the very large holes that seem to be in every pair of pants I own... Or that I appear to be baked out of my gord and smell like gange >.< HA!

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

BOOKS:

I enjoy things written in prose with deep underlying meaning,
but constantly being distracted by other novels by genre of:

Sci-Fi
Fantasy Fiction
Erotica
(and those kind about troubled individuals.... Cut, Speak, Go ask Alice ETC.)

One of my favorite trilogies (right now, which is important) has definitely got to be "The Keepers of Time" written by Marianne Curley (sp?)

Some other favorites of right now:
"Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy" (and those that follow)
"The Phantom Toll Booth"
"Wrinkle in Time" (and those that follow)

and I'm in the process of reading, Prophecies and Predictions (A modern-day dooms day book), Naked Lunch, and Trainspotting

MOVIES:
Since I don't watch Television (I despise that wretched thing)
Television sucks the life out of America and feeds the insatiable masses a conglomeration of marketing, sensationalism, distraction, misinformation, propaganda and pacification. PLEASE GET YOUR HEAD OUT OF THE PICTURE PROJECTING BOX AMERICA LIVE LIFE NOT ON THE COUCH.. THINK FOR YOURSELVES AND QUIT LETTING NETWORKS AND CORPORATIONS SPOON FEED YOU YOUR REGULARLY SCHEDULED "PROGRAMMING" . For The love of what ever it is you worship effing cut those Zombie hours down.

But Movies I can do LOL :P

Anything by Tim Burton
Most movies staring Jonnhy Depp (not because he is hot, which everyone knows he is) (but simply because I think he is a good actor)

American History 'X'
Ninth Gate
Requiem For a Dream
Trainspotting
Dogma (and EVERY OTHER Kevin Smith Movie)
Constantine
Devil's Advocate
Matrix (all of them I watch them religiously)
Lord of the rings (also religiously and all of them usually back to back :P )
Star wars (all of them)
Labyrinth
Dark Crystal
Idiocracy
Fight Club
Pan's Labyrinth
(And SOOOOOO many more that's all I do I watch movies)

I like as far as genres go:

Sci-Fi
Horror (the good kind not the flash horror) (I want guts dammit!)
SOME chick flicks (okay I watch them but don't get me wrong I'm not that much of a girl)

I HATE war movies (unless they are ACTUALLY worth while... Like Lord of War)
I LOVE B-movies and old black and whites :D nothing like that horrible Styrofoam monster to chase you down the same hallway 20 times LOL :P

MUSIC:

I listen to EVERYTHING (and yes, I know most people that say everything don't usually mean it..... this is not the case)
Although I'm more prone to listening to rock and/ or techno (or its derivatives)
I'll listen to some country
(old though, this new shit isn't even country... I don't care if your an ex-football star... stick to what you know and leave the poor music out of this)
Classical
Jazz
Reggae and what-not

but more often than not you'll catch me listening to:
Indie
Folk
Hair Metal
Black Metal
Death Metal
Classic Rock
Glam Rock
Nu-metal
Punk (popular stuff and underground)
Emo/Scr-Emo
Electronica
Techno
Trip Hop
Experimental
Happy Hardcore

ETC......... (I could name some bands but honestly that would just be pointless)

FOOD:

I am TOTALLY a 'foodie'
I LOVE to cook (for those that appreciate it)
and I LOVE to eat (like a starving Ethiopian)

It's hard to pick a favorite for me, It kinda depends on the mood I'm in... Sometimes a good 'ol classic home dish sounds great!
other times....

*Sushi
*Mexican (some people swear I should be Latin LOL)
*Italian
*Ethiopian (What do Ethiopians eat? you might say... well not alot actually LOL... but actually their food is SCREAMIN!)
*Chinese (I actually like the little boxes they send you home with HA HA! :P)
*Moroccan (they have an ingredient called "eraser" I'm still iffy about that >.<)
*Indian (I love their spices!)

I ALWAYS prefer a home cooked meal
I HATE fast food (but sometimes an evil necessity)
I LOVE to bake (in fact that's what I plan on doing with my life)
I HATE people that make me do the dishes after I spend all day in the kitchen cooking a kick ass meal
I LOVE a -good- bottle of wine (lol and yes the WHOLE bottle :P)
I HATE people who never care whats going into their mouth
(we have taste for a reason you crazy people, why not use it)
I LOVE to eat together with great friends and good conversation

The six things I could never do without

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Religion, politics, philosophy, music, food, art, poetry, the future, the past, and the present.

You know just Life, The Universe, and Everything... All I keep getting is '42'

On a typical Friday night I am

That's Game Night... so I'm in the land of elves and orcs by night time or kickin' back readin' a book.. or watchin' movies.. or playing video games with my pals.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Anything you want to know I have no secrets, I'm an open book just ask me for my SN of my instant messengers if you wanna chat it up. :D

You should message me if

If you actually read all of this LOL.

or if your looking for a dance partner :P

Or if you wanna chat it up about something... I'll admit though I'm a terrible pen-pal

Not just to get in my pants because I'm not that kind of girl. I have my fun and all but that doesn't mean I'm easy.

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Conversely, if you think (or hope,) that there could be relationship potential (of any kind) between us, please keep the following in mind:

The only thing I'm really looking for in a relationship is someone with confidence/self-esteem, someone independent and low maintenance, someone who will be themself, someone who will "want" me, but not "need" me.

Ideally, I'm looking for something low key; I think relationships should be a decision to continue living your life, independent of anyone else, but with a willingness to accept another's faults, to share experiences, to grow and become better people, beside one another.

I find the idea of two or more people, who are complete and happy on their own, coming together and becoming more than they ever could have been alone, to be much more romantic than "completing each other," or "filling a void."

I'm not just looking to "hook-up", but I'm not exactly looking for "someone to spend the rest of my life with" either, (although there isn't anything wrong with the latter concept, it just seems more hopeful than it is realistic.)

Ultimately, no matter what we have in common or the experiences we choose to share with one another, you have to be alright with "me being me," and with "you being you," even if there is such a thing as "me and you."