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29 M Minneapolis, MN

My Details

Last Online
Dec 16, 2013
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm intelligent with a decent sense of humor and a subtle appreciation of life/existence. I'm usually upbeat but shy in public situations. If there's a lot of people around that I've never met I'm definitely more of a wall flower than a social butterfly.

I just moved back into Minnesota from Oregon and I'm working with my grandpa for the tax season. After that I plan on finding a job in the Twin Cities and finding an apartment.
What I’m doing with my life
I've been in Redmond for a little while now and although some of the newness has faded I am still enjoying the change of pace.

Being as things have been going well so far I've decided to make some changes in my life and have quit smoking cigarettes about 3 months ago. That feels great honestly, and I'm constantly pumping myself up about it. I'm in better physical shape and can truly say that I feel better on a daily basis.

I currently work and am pursuing some personal interest studies on my own time. I consider going back to school but it's hard to commit to more debt in student loans. Perhaps I'll pay down what I owe first.
I’m really good at
Understanding people and being empathetic towards their needs. I usually don't act on this however and this can cause disharmony in my life. I've often been told to look out for myself more.

I'm a pretty decent cook, and what's more, I love cooking for people :)

I'm awesome at making an idiot out of myself

Being honest, respectful and kind. I stay true to myself and as true as I can with other people. This causes a lot of disharmony in my life since I don't always phrase it right or people don't really understand what I mean. Defenses can sometimes be a difficult thing to lower.

Conversation, but I get quite or daze out when my mind is on other things.
The first things people usually notice about me
People seem to comment most on either my voice or my smile. They say "You've got a nice voice (smile)," so that must be something that stands out.


People usually notice that I'm not your standard personality. Just like us all I'm a unique person and don't have any problem embracing it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I have a lot of favorites but here's a few:

*Authors - Brian Jaques, Margaret Weiss and Tracy Hickman, Anne Rice (still scared of her take on Snow White though), Bram Stoker, and I'll need to go through my books to find more.

*Movies - the Big Lebowski, the Neverending Story, Howl's Moving Castle, Princess Mononoke, Vampire Hunter D, Terminator 1 & 2, Batman (the original), Bill and Ted's Excellent Adventure, the Matrix (the first), Pan's Labyrinth (Giullermo del Torro is a genius), Hellboy 1 & 2, Tron, Star Wars (originals), Star Trek Generations and First Contact and plenty of others

*Music - Nobuo Uematsu, Phantogram, Pink Floyd, Sublime, the White Stripes, Jack Johnson, the Smashing Pumpkins, Enya, Radiohead, Mason Jennings, etc... , it really depends on what moves me musically. I like complicated and well thought out scores, deep or poetic lyrics, heavy beats particularly when matched with light ethereal harmonies and style. I'm not a big fan of country, but I'll stomach it.... it's not about tuning it out, it's understanding that other people like it, although I can't see how sometimes.

*Food - Oranges, Sushi (particularly eel), shrimp, Pizza, carrots, apples, Pineapple, potatoes, corn....I don't really know. I'm a strict omnivore so I'll try just about anything once just to find out whether or not I like it. I not a fan of ginger unless it's used as what I consider "appropriate", but at the same time I'm a larger fan of garlic.
The six things I could never do without
Sleep, good food, family/friends, pets, an equal balance between companionship and solitude, and peace of mind.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to resolve some of the stress in my life, friends/family, random thoughts on existence or state of being, the possibility of returning to school or what I would like to achieve within the next several years... and finances, don't we all.

I absolutely love appreciating a moment, just hearing or seeing something new or old. Sometimes it's best not to think, right?

I've also recently embarked upon a journey of self exploration so I've been spending a lot of time thinking about myself and how I can be a better "me".
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm a home body. I don't mind going places or doing things but I'm not a fan of crowds. I enjoy being with a small group of friends to go bowling or see a movie, something like that, but I enjoy hanging out with just one or two people the most.

Occasionally I will go someplace crowded to write, usually a bar. I find that being surrounded by people yet completely alone helps me concentrate on what I want to write and how I want to write it. Besides people watching can provide inspiration and insight.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Being honest is a tough policy. It drives a lot of people away ironically. I guess people would rather be lied to...seems strange if you ask me.

Although I try to stay optimistic I'm a fairly big cynic sometimes.

I'm kind of an idiot sometimes. I'm analytical so I can sometimes get the wrong idea about things if I'm not corrected.

I'm also a nice person, and easy to get along with, but I don't make friends easily since I have a tendency to come on strong. If you've made it this far into my bio hopefully it's obvious what I mean by that. I like to deal with bad news first, work through it, then sit back and enjoy the good news.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You would like to find out more about me.

I'm working on a list of qualities that I have to offer a person, qualities I expect and qualities that I believe are the most important in a relationship, but it's obviously not posted yet.