I am sick, and I am dull, and I am plain.
My Self-Summary
I'm a lovely, brilliant man. I am extremely pleasant to everyone I
meet.
I
cycle about
London, getting lost more often than not, watching football,
playing
football,
reading
books and
seeking out new places to drink and watch
live music. I am constantly
discovering amazing music that I've never heard before.
I speak Bengali and I am sporadically trying to teach myself
Arabic. Its coming along, slowly.
I love novels and music that contain wistfulness and ask more
questions than they answer. I love being tired at the end of the
day. I love getting up in the morning, every morning. I am happy
and brilliant and gorgeous and fun. I miss
Asia. I have an awesome family. I like
dogs.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm doing the career thing, because I've got a job that I like and
I finally know where I'm going.
I'm exploring London, because I'm new here and I love that there's
never nothing to do. And catching up with a never-ending supply of
visitors and old friends who end up in the capital for various
reasons.
Outside of that, I'm educating myself about music and
history and economics and
politics and everything else all at once and wishing I read more
novels. And drinking navy strength gin and eating as many
oats as I can justify on a
given day....which seems to be a lot.
I’m really good at
Listening. Having long, long conversations that spread over hours
and go nowhere. Going for coffee. Really, really late at night
talking total bollocks about music and really, really meaning it.
Hoping. Looking on the bright side. Riding my bike. Bicycle
karaoke. My job, actually.
Being good to people. Making honourable but not always safe or
beneficial choices. Enjoying myself while
dancing. Talking about stuff and
sounding clever. Making friends. Charming animals. Getting up in
the morning.
Tea and
breakfast for two. Getting lost and finding my way again. The
matter in hand. The platter in sand.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes, my smile. Kindness, unless I'm on my bike.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Lately I'm reading a lot of theory and history, which is good fun,
but a bit dry I suppose. And the book from which I learn Arabic
which, again, is not going to be a bestseller.
The last couple of novels I've loved have been The Plague, by
Camus, The Prisoner of Zenda, by Anthony Hope and The Incredible
Lightness of Being, by Milan Kundera. Catch-22 is probably still my
favourite, but its years now since I've read it.
For some reason my favourite film is The Life Aquatic. Still not
sure why, but I really liked it. Bit of a fan of Wes Anderson but
I've not seen as much of his work as I should have. I've not
actually been to the movies for a while but I tend to enjoy
slightly off kilter, independenty sort of things like Little Miss
Sunshine or Day of the Sunflowers.
Everyone says they like all types of music. Lots of stuff is good,
but if you put me in a box it would like as not have guitars in it.
Say indie, but mean lots of things. So....The Smiths, The Stone
Roses, The Beatles, The Stones, Buzzcocks, The Jam, The Undertones,
The Decemberists......The Young Marble Giants, Kaiser Chiefs,
Velvet Underground, Maximo Park, everything everything.
God thats a lot isnt it. I love food. I try to avoid
kebabs, with mixed success.
They seem to serve them in pittas here. This is wrong. They belong
in a naan.
The six things I could never do without
1. My bicycle
2. Music
3. Sport
4. Jumpers
5. The interwebs
6. New books
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The not-too-distant future. The very distant past. Actual
nostagia is pretty big for
me. I live the future in the past, in a way. Which is very
appropriate, given that my friends in London are a mixed-bag of
people I've met at various different and disconnected times in my
life.
What's it all about, Alfie?
What's for dinner, mainly.
On a typical Friday night I am
In a pub with friends and one or both of good beer and good music,
hopefully going on to have a bit of a dance.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
Most of the time, I'm not really sure what's going on.
You should message me if
you fancy a chat