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34 M Lehigh Acres, FL

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Last Online
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Native American, White
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
*Not looking for relationship. Not looking for sex. Just looking for friends.*

**All I want to do is explore stuff, make comic books, read science articles, and bankroll a technocratic revolution. If you're down with that, get in here.**

***I just recently realized that I might actually be a grandmother trapped in a young bear man's body. All the signs are there: bosomy hugs, baking, spoiling children, watching shitty soaps. Werewolves have the moon. I have the smell of freshly baked apples.***

I prefer people with open minds and burning convictions. I thrive on intellectual stimulation and debate, always seeking new things to inspire growth. I look for knowledge and find it in challenge.

It would be excellent to find a mind similarly aspected, also with a philosophical bent. Plato's 'The Republic', 'Nicomachean Ethics' by Aristotle, with a healthy dose of that Le Bon guy's 'The Crowd'. Also, if you can find strong symmetry between Rumi, Frank O'Hara, and Louis CK, you and I will get along famously.

My sense of justice and politics are important to me, but I'm not the zealous firebrand I used to be. I probably identify best as a democratic socialist libertarian eco-feminist wookie love muffin. I lean Left quite hard on most things, but I've found it more important in the past few years to pull myself into understanding and companionship with people who hold perspectives opposite mine. Since I finally broke down and bought a new pair of glasses, I very much prefer doddering around the old dusty rooms and dark corners of the mind (any mind), and happily sharing that space and a coffee with any other brain that's as interested in poking bears as I am.

I'm quite a relaxed person, but I do not believe in going with the flow. "Going with the flow" all the time only ensures that your life will be dictated by the world around you. So, even if relaxed, whatever your path, be conscious and proactive about it!

If just seeing me on a typical day, what I am is a simple man with a big mind. I enjoy a relatively geeky lifestyle: comics, video games, mathematics for fun, etc. I have new ideas and inventions every day and seek out how to implement them or people who can make it happen. I am hopelessly attracted to innovation and deep conversation, and I am raw in my approach to others. So let's dispense with the being guarded and talk about ideas and invention!

I'm super down with Food Not Bombs and I do view poverty as a form of violence. I support capitalism insofar as it can get us to the next level of technological development in order to operate our basic human needs through a post-scarce model, but I'm largely socialistic through a technocratic lens. I'm pro-nuclear and pro-gmo, so I often run afoul of even my own allies. Anyway, if you hate poor people and you think their plight is all their fault, we probably will have a rough time maintaining common ground, but I'm not exclusionary, so have at!
What I’m doing with my life
I have been many things in my life. I'm currently a massage therapist and briefly an actor and second assistant director (whatever that is), who is sometimes a writer, and am developing a life in adventure, the arts, and activism. I'm completely guilty of doing what I love for a living.

I'm currently building something amazing. If it makes me rich, free tacos for everyone! Except Steve.
I’m really good at
Putting ideas together. I'm told I'm a great friend and have recently started believing it, too. Totally awesome at making sense of complex things and endlessly fucking up the simple. I am also good at eating and breathing.
The first things people usually notice about me
Eyes are so cliche, aren't they? Well, that's what people notice. I'm not sure if it's their fault for being so uncreative as to not come up with something better, or my fault for not having something better to look at. It's not like anyone ever compliments my nice ass.

Yes, my eyes. The nearly black pits of unadulterated soul-crushing teddy bear love. Prepare to be skelped.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like everything, not gonna lie, but if you sat me down with The Office, a Terry Pratchett novel, Breakfast at Tiffany's to watch later, the XX playing in the background, and a platter full of tacos, you'd be my favorite person ever.
The six things I could never do without
Air, food, water, the internet twice, and a good poop.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how I'm going to take over the world, and then save it, and then take it over some more. It's really happening, too. Expect me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Reading, relaxing, and preparing my being for busy weekends. I am exceedingly diurnal. The night time is not the right time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm an introvert. That means social situations tend to drain me rather than energize. Don't take this to mean that I don't like being out and about. I do. I just can't do it as long as others.

I'm oblivious to flirtation and innuendo. Example:

Her: Heyy, want to play? ;-)
Me: Sure! Play what? Do you like checkers?
Her: lol with whatever comes up
Me: So checkers?
Her: ...
Me: ...

That actually happened! Oh, life.

I'm also pretty rough around the edges. Uncouth, even, but not mean. I'm deaf, dumb, and blind to social graces, so I'll require a bit of taming when we hang out but I'm a total sweetheart and likely to not commit any meaningful transgression.

Also, I don't drive. Ever. By choice. My life isn't really complicated by this, although I do dream of the wind on my scalp as I push a Vespa to its limits. This invariably turns into the "If You Steal My Sunshine" music video. Update: I got a little Honda Elite from the 80's. She takes me 90 miles to the gallon to the tune of 35 mph, and her name is Judith Kitely.

I'm a hugger.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
play D&D, read comics, and can speak of the metaphors your favorite fiction is about.

I'd like to spend my time with people who might just be as off the cuff, geeky, and intensely passionate as I am. Give me fervor, or resign me to a life of corporate accounts payable nina speaking, just a moment.

I'm really not looking for a romantic commitment. I'm slow, even timid (hello, introvert!) to that kind of thing, and with events that have transpired this past year, my mind is focused on taking care of me. What I'm really interested in, still being wanton for companionship and run-on sentences, is building deep, reliable, responsible friendships with people who are interested in knowing me and knowing themselves and knowing what's created whenever we're hanging around. Compliments and flirtations are nice, but I'm far more flattered and endeared by a shared existence that was brought upon by genuine mutuality instead of teased into being by seduction.

Please message me if you recognize that love is more than a social construct ignited by the paired brute forces of attraction and expectation, and that love isn't exclusive to people who are "in a relationship", and that friends are sometimes the greatest loves of all.

Hi, I'm Nathan. And you just lost The Game.