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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:32pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Dropped out of space camp
Science / Engineering
Strictly monogamous
Dislikes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), German (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm not the type of guy who buys expensive clothes to look the part of someone who has their shit together. I'm the type of guy that has his shit together because I'm not afraid to get my t-shirt and jeans dirty. In short if you're looking for someone to show off to your friends as a shiny trophy, you should probably move on and I wouldn't like you anyways.

I work all over the United States but live in St. Louis. I probably spend 7 months or so on the road, but that leaves 5 months for fun. So really it's better than being a teacher or student when it comes down to having time off. This time is broken up into packets of course two weeks on one week off. That kind of thing. My life has been a long road trip for nearly ten years now.

I'm very much my own person and very independent, I don't date much or ever maybe??? My style is to "just let it happen". I have for sure fallen into a groove with my life in the sense that I'm predictable. I am looking for someone though. I miss having someone special in my life to share everything with. I have all the creature comforts that I require; houses, cars, no debt, friends, good paying job, hobbies, etc. One of my biggest personal drawbacks is I might seem confident on the outside but I'm shy on the inside and rarely say what's on my mind. In short you might have to make it a little more obvious to me if you want me to ask you out. That's all part of the "just let it happen" attitude.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Aside from work/travel, Some friends and I have a bar on Cherokee street where I spend a lot of time. Typically I'm so beat up and damaged from a road trip that I spend most of my time at home repairing myself for the next round. I stay off my feet and sleep more than the average person letting all my wounds heal. I'm active at night when I'm home, usually staying up till 6am or so. I still have that young streak in me.

I've been fixing my house up here in the city, I didn't prepare for all the maintenance in 2005 when I bought the place, so now I'm focusing on the repairs. Usually dumping a heavy sum into a big project once a year. Next year is all new windows. I can't wait.

I may fire up my old sound and lighting company again to have some addition income for when I'm home. I've pretty much abandoned it once I got my current job, but I miss making bands bright and loud. Plus people think it's really do I.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm great at making hard decisions. Logic will prevail again some day. Playing drums, working with my hands, eating lots of food, paying bills, drinking Fireball, petting cats, doing laundry. I'm sure that I'm good at lots of other things but I'm on the spot here and I get scared.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I look strange and different from others I guess. People constantly stare at me in public for some reason, it makes me self conscious. It's like when you watch a documentary from a distant land and everyone going about their business in the background constantly stares into the camera while filming the documentary like they've never seen a fucking camera's annoying. I'm a magnet for weird people that never stop talking even after I've given off all the body language that I've had enough. I have long hair compared to most guys I suppose...I don't really notice it, I like long hair, big deal, right!?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books-none...Sorry, books bore me to tears. I don't get the obsession. Don't judge me. I get all my reading done going over service manuals.

Movies-comedy, thrillers - nothing new. I like classic movies.

Music-no pop, no rap, no new country.

Food-everything but the weirdest of shit - bugs,dog,monkey,rats. I've been on a Qdoba thing lately just so I can input Cholula.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Aside from the everyday common needs, I don't require much. My family raised me to self sufficient and tough. Sleep Sleep sleep. Hell on the Red salsa. Sharp cheddar...I like these things.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Women for starters. The worlds problems. How greedy people are (myself included sadly). My youth. How I will die and when. My friends. Why government sucks so bad. Why can't I fall asleep. Will I ever meet the women that can put up with me being gone for a couple weeks at a time. Am I doomed to be alone my whole life in my effort to chase dollars around the country. Food. These are all things that I probably think about at least once a day everyday. I'm a ray of sunshine huh?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either stuck in a motel room, or at the bar. You can count on that. Very rarely do I ever stay in on Friday. You can find me at CBGB on Grand if you want to stalk me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When nobody is looking I do shots of Worcestershire sauce, drink pickle juice. I love the sour stuff. I have a collection of chewed bubble gum I started when I was in fourth grade. It's amazing.
You should message me if
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You're strong, own a car, smart, employed, non-alcoholic, not a filthy hippie, kinda sleepy, aware, clean, non-mountain climber, can drive stick shift without a lesson, know how to calm down without being told, young at heart, not old before your time, mentally stable, not totally completely to the left, make your own money, can be trusted not to cheat while I'm away, you're sweet, shower at least six times a week, like tequila, fun, comical, have a quiet side, not totally overweight, smiles, like my cats, know exactly who you are right now, a little mean. I guess I just described myself... one more I guess, you're not me.

I'm serious, not here for flings. I'm getting too old for that shit. I want a solid, healthy relationship.