OkCupid.com: Mitor / 35 / m / straight / Ruidoso, New Mexico, United States

The real question is who am I and would you want to know me? How do I quantify who I am?

I am a nice guy. I am strong willed and shy, but you would never know it! I am only shy for the first three seconds, then I am braver than most. It is getting past that first moment that kills me. After that I have no qualms. I am not afraid on the first date, I love the first date! So much potential, so much excitement!

I like the outdoors, doing almost anything outside makes me happy! I like to cook, especially anything spicy! I am a bit sarcastic, and I love to make people laugh, even if I am not always that great at it! I am somewhat of a geek... I like computers, and computer/console games etc, but I don't spend my life on them, and at the same time there is the outdoorsman/carfixing/home-reparing me that is completely un-geeky??

I have been doing a lot of thinking lately about who I really am, and what I really want, so today I am updating my profile with that in mind. I know that I want a real relationship, and more importantly I know better who I realy want it with. I want someone nice, or maybe sweet. Someone who still has it in them to trust someone. I know that I am deserving of trust, but there is so little of it left in the world... I really really want someone that I can trust. I want to be there for someone! and I want them to be there for me! I want to build a home. I grew up in a wonderful home, I have great parents and I want to feel like I am home but I want it to be my own. I have been lacking that for too long in my life, and I want to start building it!

Right now? Working in a casino, dealing blackjack.. Realizing what is important in life. A strange but effective combination. Trying to move closer to my family and friends.

Cooking Porkchops.. ?? Ok.. cheap answer. That is what I had for dinner tonight. I am good at a lot of things! Which ones do you want to know about? Dealing Blackjack/Roulette etc... ??? That is just work... Cooking! Being human! :P I really don't know!! Get to know me and tell me so I can write it in!

I'm quiet. But then they get to know me and can't shut me up.

The Lord of the Rings! Labels me as a geek I know. Most music and movies are in the favorite category. Um...Music: NIN, Jewel, Johnny Cash, Erasure. Movies: ?? I really love movies... I watch a lot... I like all kinds. Action, Sci-fi, "Chick Flicks"... anything. I dare you to find a line I don't know from 'When Harry Met Sally', or 'Addicted to Love'. Or any of the Terminator's for that matter. Oh Oh, or Ferris Bueller's Day Off!!!! :)

I am an eater... I like food in general. My favorite though has to be anything Asian, Thai in particular is at the top of the list. If you tell me of a good resturant I haven't been to, I will love you forever!

Family, friends, love, hope. I think four things really covers it.

This changes too often to give a good answer. Everything!

Lately it is usually how I can improve myself, or where do I want to live?

"My mind its like a slot-machine up here, you never know whats going to come out, three oranges, or two lemons and a bannana!" -Dotty Otley, Noises Off

At work. Friday is a big night at the casino... How about on MY friday? Driving to Albuquerque to hang out with my friends there is a very common occurrence.

I am a total romantic sap. Once you have me hooked I will do ANYTHING for you!

You find something about me interesting, and you are an intelligent, interesting woman!

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